BEFORE THE 90 DAYS Geoffrey Paschel calls Big Ed ‘pervert’ & talks Tell All snub, pending criminal case, Mary and more

90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Geoffrey Paschel calls Big Ed a pervert

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days star Geoffrey Paschel was not invited to participate in the Couples Tell All special due to his pending charges of kidnapping, domestic assault, and more. So, Geoffrey is taking things into his own hands by teasing his own Tell All video coming soon! In the video, Geoffrey will finally talk about his June, 2019 arrest as well as the allegations of abuse by his current and former wives.

In addition to his Tell All, Geoffrey also appeared on The Domenick Nati Show this week and talked about a wide range of topics, including TLC’s Tell All snub, his pending criminal case, his awkward on-screen love triangle, and his take on some of his Before the 90 Days co-stars. (Full video included below.)


Domenick brings up the pending criminal charges against Geoffrey stemming from an altercation with his girlfriend in June of 2019. [No, this girlfriend was not Varya, Mary, or Geoffrey’s estranged wife Brittany.] “Do you feel like you’re gonna beat these charges?” Domenick asks.

“I don’t feel like I’m going to, I know I’m going to,” Geoffrey responds confidently. “I know the truth…I know what happened. I was there. And I’m ready to face it.” Geoffrey says the constant delays due to the COVID-19 pandemic have been frustrating because he wants to get “the quickest court date that I can and get this stuff over with.”

“I have everything that I need to exonerate me,” Geoffrey continues. “This is all just a ploy. This is all just an agenda to try to make me lose custody of my child.”

Geoffrey explains that when he was arrested in June he was initially facing just a misdemeanor charge of domestic assault, which explains why he was able to leave the country and fly to Russia to film. “They tried to drop the charges, but the ‘victim’ [Geoffrey uses air quotes] didn’t want to drop it and she pressed forward. And then they offered me no punishment whatsoever just to have it on my record. I said ‘No! Absolutely not!'” Geoffrey was told that if he didn’t take the offer that they would convene a grand jury and “trump up the charges,” as Geoffrey put it.

“‘You do whatever the hell you want to do, I am not accepting anything other than a full exoneration,'” Geoffrey says he told the prosecutor. “So that’s what they did.” If you’re curious, the amended charges that Geoffrey is currently facing are aggravated kidnapping, domestic assault, interference with emergency call, and vandalism.


Domenick smoothly transitions from the pending charges to asking Geoffrey whether or not the reports of TLC not wanting him to participate in the Couples Tell All were true.

“That’s correct,” Geoffrey asserts. “I feel that the network has bowed down to the pressure of a few thousand people as opposed to the 3.3 million people that watch the show, which is unfortunate.” I assume he is referencing the petition to have Geoffrey removed from TLC entirely, which has garnered more than 5,000 signatures.

“We’re in a different time now, you know? The whole #metoo movement and whatever, so there’s a lot of pressure to cower to the minority…wanting to make sure they’re not making the wrong decision. They didn’t want to get into all the legal stuff, so I didn’t give a lot of legal stuff to them.”


Geoffrey then brings up his own Tell All that he plans to release on his YouTube channel soon. “I’m gonna let it all be known there.” He says the video will feature “several people” to “explain a lot of the situation that’s going on.”

Here’s the preview teaser that Geoffrey shared recently on his Instagram account:

Geoffrey talks with Domenick about the negativity he has received online this season. “It’s just sad that people resort to such negative and bullying type of
personality when it’s just unneeded,” he says after detailing some of the things he has had to deal with.


Domenick asks Geoffrey what his take is on the relationship between Big Ed and Rose. “I’m a blunt person, I like to put it bluntly. I think he’s a pervert. I think it’s disgusting the way that he treats her. I think that he’s manipulating her.”

Geoffrey acknowledges that cast members are edited to seem a certain way on the show, including Big Ed. “I’m sure he’s provoked or pushed to do certain things, but even if Varya was in a situation where I didn’t even like her — let’s say after the proposal when she said ‘not now’ — I’m not gonna go on there and say, ‘Hey your your breath stinks, and you need to brush your teeth more, and use some Listerine. Here, I brought you this.’ I’m not gonna do that…It’s common sense that you don’t do that to somebody…I think he lacked a little common sense in those scenes.”

Geoffrey thinks it’s disgusting how Big Ed treats Rose, but unlike many viewers, he doesn’t feel the same about “Baby Girl Lisa” Hamme and how she treats Usman. “I adore Lisa,” Geoffrey says. “Lisa’s a cannon, I mean she really is. But she’s awesome. She has a great heart, and she really loves that man. I mean she just seriously really loves that man.”

What about Usman? “I don’t talk to him a lot,” Geoffrey says of Sojaboy. “I get little snippets, I see conversations and whatnot. But I question him, you know? I want to believe that he’s in it for love, but then you kind of weigh all the options — you really don’t know.”


Geoffrey reveals a little bit about what happened leading up to the dramatic surprise visit by Varya at Geoffrey’s house in Tennessee — while Mary was there!

Geoffrey says that it was roughly three months after he returned from Russia that he took Mary out for her birthday, and that was the dinner date that we saw on the show. He says that the surprise visit from Varya was the very next day and that “Mary was still at my house from the night before.”

“So you guys consummated the relationship?” Domenick asks.

“I didn’t say anything about consummation!” Geoffrey laughs. “She came over, she drank a little bit, so I didn’t let her drive kind of thing,” he says.

Geoffrey says that he was expecting producers to arrive to shoot some b-roll footage, but he insists that Varya being there was completely unexpected. “This was a complete surprise, 100 percent. I hear people say, ‘Oh, this is so staged! This is so fake!’ I was caught in the moment. You saw my sh*t-eating grin. And I was, like, ‘Mmmm.’ I didn’t know what to do! It felt like my heart went down to my toes.”

Here’s the full interview with Geoffrey Paschel on The Domenick Nati Show. It includes quite a bit I didn’t recap above, including Geoffrey’s take on David and Lana!


A complete list of our articles about Geoffrey with titles, links, and a brief synopsis of each:

Geoffrey Paschel facing kidnapping, assault charges; ex gf gets order of protection

Terrifying details on the allegations made by Geoffrey’s live-in girlfriend after he allegedly assaulted her in June of 2019. He was later arrested and is currently facing charges of aggravated kidnapping, domestic assault, interference with emergency call, and vandalism.

Geoffrey Paschel is still married, wife says he abused her, she took their kids to Canada

Information on the bitter split between Geoffrey and his estranged current wife Brittany Paschel, including her taking their two children illegally and running off to Canada. Brittany also accused Geoffrey of abuse, and court documents indicate that Geoffrey’s third wife provided an affidavit to support Brittany with allegations of her own.

Geoffrey Paschel lost custody of son, more details from 2019 domestic assault arrest

After Geoffrey’s arrest in June, Brittany filed for (and got) custody of their son. Post includes additional details about Geoffrey’s arrest from the police report, including the fact that additional restraints had to be applied to Geoffrey multiple times after he attempted to kick out the windows of a police vehicle after being placed in custody.

Geoffrey Paschel’s 2nd ex-wife says he ‘repeatedly raped’ her in divorce filing, plus more abuse allegations

Details on the allegations made by Geoffrey’s second wife during their divorce, including her claim that he “repeatedly raped” her. There is also information from her order of protection filed against him in which she alleges that Geoffrey attacked her multiple times during their marriage, including one instance involving a shotgun and another with a knife held to her throat.

Geoffrey Paschel shares video at son’s grave, offers grief coping advice

Geoffrey shares a video on YouTube recorded at the grave of his son Kazhem, who tragically passed away in March of 2018 at just 13 months old. The video is titled “How to Manage The Loss Of A Child,” and it includes Geoffrey’s thoughts on his son’s passing and coping with the grief.

Geoffrey Paschel criminal history timeline

We continue our in-depth coverage of controversial 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days star Geoffrey Paschel by moving on from the numerous allegations of domestic abuse made against him by his wives and girlfriend and taking a look at his other arrests.

Ex-wife accuses Geoffrey Paschel of reselling prescription opiates, using his children as a ‘cover’ or ‘mule’

We take a peek at Geoffrey’s third marriage and the contentious custody battle for the couple’s son. Geoffrey’s ex references numerous allegations against him in court documents, including “his practice of selling opiate medication and historic involvement of his children as a ‘cover’ or ‘mule’ in his illegal activities.”

Geoffrey Paschel played The BTK Serial Killer for Snapped on Oxygen

Geoffrey Paschel is no stranger to the small screen. Before making his reality show debut with TLC, Geoffrey compiled a pretty extensive acting resume, including a role as one of America’s most infamous serial killers.

Why do fans want Geoffrey Paschel removed from Before the 90 Days? Full controversy recap

We recap all the controversies surrounding 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days star Geoffrey Paschel, including his criminal history and the numerous allegations of abuse made by his former wives and girlfriends. We also include Geoffrey’s social media posts about his past and the negative things being said about him — including the petition demanding his removal from TLC.

Geoffrey Paschel assault & kidnapping case delayed, plus 2011 protection order revealed

Update on Geoffrey’s assault and kidnapping case. Plus, a 2011 police report reveals that another of Geoffrey’s ex-girlfriends had an order of protection filed against him at the time.

Geoffrey & Varya update and Before the 90 Days Couples Tell All spoilers

Geoffrey and Varya reportedly did not participate in the Before the 90 Days Couples Tell All special after TLC did not invite him. A reliable source says that TLC did extend an invitation to Varya, but she told the network that if Geoffrey couldn’t participate, then she wouldn’t either. The special was filmed remotely during the first weekend in May.

Geoffrey Paschel’s girlfriend Mary Wallace arrested for domestic violence in 2013 EXCLUSIVE
On 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, controversial star Geoffrey Paschel is currently caught up in a love triangle with his Russian girlfriend Varya and his good friend Mary from Tennessee. After Varya rejected Geoffrey’s marriage proposal, he returned to the United States and decided to try to pursue a relationship with Mary. The two have a friendship history together, they live close to each other, and they also have something relatively unique in common: being arrested for domestic violence!

VIDEO Geoffrey Paschel shares details on son Kazhem’s death at the age of 13 months
In a new YouTube video, Geoffrey opens up about the passing of his 13-month-old son Kazhem Paschel in March of 2018. In addition to Geoffrey’s emotional account of what happened, the video includes medical records, audio recordings, a 911 call transcript and more.

Geoffrey Paschel kidnapping and assault trial delayed again more than 2 years after arrest
The trial of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days star Geoffrey Paschel has been delayed yet again. Geoffrey is still facing charges of aggravated kidnapping, domestic assault, interference with an emergency call, and vandalism after an altercation with his American girlfriend in June of 2019. The altercation was shortly before Geoffrey started filming with TLC, including his trip to Russia to see Varya.

Geoffrey Paschel trial day one recap with photos & video
The trial of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days star Geoffrey Paschel started in Knoxville, Tennessee. Get a recap of day one, including graphic photos of the injuries sustained by Geoffrey’s fiancée (!!) Kristen on the night of the incident. Plus, video of the trial via Court TV’s live stream!

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