VIDEO Farrah Abraham revisits Derek Underwood's grave in Season 4 promo

VIDEO Farrah Abraham revisits Derek Underwood’s grave in Season 4 promo

Jun, 12, 2012 | AUTHOR: Darren O; | Related : Farrah Abraham, Teen Mom

Tonight is the beginning of the end for the first mommies of Teen Mom. Catelynn, Maci, and Farrah have been out in full force hitting the promotional circuit as they and the network look to send the series out with a ratings boom.

In the latest promo video provided by MTV we see Farrah Abraham and Sophia visiting the grave of the late Derek Underwood, Sophia’s father, on his 21st birthday. No punches are being pulled here as we get an example of what should prove to be an extremely emotional 4th and final season as Teen Mom looks to sum up the incredible changes these young mothers have been through since their 16 & Pregnant episodes.

The following clip will be part of tonight’s two-episode premiere:

I think I got a little something in my eye. Hold on one second…

Here is what Farrah shared with Derek while their daughter played along the windy field as a vision of adorable innocence.

Well Derek I’m happy to see that your dad brought you some things for your birthday. I’m trying not to cry anymore about things because I do not want to be an unhappy person anymore. It’s really sad to me that I never saw you like get to do any of the things that you wanted to do when you grew up.

Now you’re 21 and I just feel like you died really early and you didn’t really get to experience life and it makes me really sad. Derek, I wish we could have gotten married and I wish we could’ve spent more time together but… And it just really hurts that I’m here by myself because I never wanted to be that person. But it’s okay that I am. It’s just what I have to deal with.

And I’m happy I don’t forget the things we’ve done together and I’m happy that I don’t forget that stuff.

Tonight’s premiere begins at 10EST.

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time

It’s time to take that pacifier away. She’s going to screw up Sophia’s palette. It’s probably already screwed up.
tab

i have to wonder how much of this derek part is for the drama of the show. i’m sure she’s sad that sophia’s father is gone, but talking about getting married to derek? she wasn’t even speaking to him when he died. i feel like more of her sadness over it comes from a selfish place, the “oh, poor me doing this all alone and you aren’t here”.
- Jessica
  
  Agree
- Nathan
  
  It’s easier to create an idealized version of someone after they’re gone and create romanticized ideas of what could have been. The reality is that if this guy were still alive, she would probably be on the show complaining about how he is a bad father and doesn’t pay child support. I still feel bad for her daughter though.
- funckyerdoder
  
  I think it just seemes like this because you didn’t even see a reaction when he died on 16&pregnant, and now she’s crying. But I think that Farrah held in a lot and probably thought those sad feeling would go eventually if she ignores them. Sometimes it takes some time to start grieving and I don’t think Farrah is “selling” his death on tv.
- leah
  
  rude u dont even know you weren’t even there
tab

why are my comments always in moderation?? i didn’t use any foul language at all and i’ve been a commenter here for a long time.
Sherita

As much as Farrah disgusts me with her crappy attitude towards her family and her blatant disrespect I cant imagine what its like to lose a guy you love and to know u will never see them again. From what ive seen on her 16 and pregnant she wasnt even talkin to Derrick, per her mothers request. Thats sad to not be speaking to someone u love and then they die on u. Farrah’s mom showed no remorse for the guys death from what I noticed. She couldnt even sympathyze for HIS parents? Poor Sophia will never know her dad. I also think thats messed up that Farrah wont let Derricks family c Sophia considering thats the only link they have to him. Farrah needs to realize it aint about her or anyone else but the greater good for Sophia. Wouldnt be me cause I would fight her tooth and nail to c my grandchild if I were Derricks family.
- jay
  
  She lets her paternal grandfather see sofia…when she asked for derek’s social security checks to help out with sofia derek’s mother was a **tch and didnt lett her get the money to help her out financially even though she knows sofia is his and she also lets derek’s sister see her…the grandmother wanted to c her but didnt want derek ss to help pay out financially…
savannah

A lot of her anger towards her Mom is probably stemming from the fact that her Mom is the one who didn’t want her seeing Derek. So she’s going to have all those “what if’s” in her mind. I think unless you go through this, where the person who you got pregnant with dies while you are pregnant…nobody is in the place to judge her.
- kayla
  
  well said savannah
sheryo

I have been watching this show since the get go! She didnt even like the guy, She always talked bad about him & now she’s talking about marraige?!?! She needs to realize all of her BS is all on tape….freakin tard!!!
Ummmmmm

I don’t know how I feel about this. In her 16 & Pregnant episode she made it seem like he was harassing her and that she wanted nothing to do with him, I mean she wouldn’t even tell him she was pregnant! From what I gather I think maybe she cheated on him and that’s what led to their falling out. When he calls her at her job on 16 & Pregnant she tells him she’s going out with some friends and Derek asks her if a certain guy is going (Roberto??) and she says no, then he responds by saying that of that guy is there he’s never talking to her again. Then, later on in the show she gets asked out on a date by….the same guy Derek was talking about (Roberto?? I can’t remember the name!) He ends up standing her up anyways but still. Well, when Farrah meets up with Derek’s sister on Teen Mom, his sister says that Derek wanted to be there even if the baby wasn’t his. So that’s my conclusion. I think she made him look really bad in her 16 & Pregnant episode and it makes me kind of not believe her being sad but she very well could be.
Tracie

So sad
Brittany

She was young when she got pregnant. Even though she acted like she disliked him, she could have just been young and naive and confused about her feelings. For example, if Ryan had passed, I believe Maci would be devastated. Farrah had a relationship with this man. Even though it ended, a piece of him is still here forever and she is allowed tto have feelings. It does not matter whether Farrah still loved him or not, he is the father of her child and looking into Sophia’s face everyday and seeing Derek in it…of course she loves him, in some way, shape or form, she loves him.

Honestly, people do make mistakes. When people get on Farrah and Maci’s case (now) it pisses me off because they are good parents and they are really trying. Jenelle and Amber I think warrant criticism but not Farrah. She has grown and I think we all see that.
whoa

It is time to take that pacifier from the little girl before it messes with her speech.
Caitlin

I agree with tab.. while it is easy to romanticize the whole thing and imagine you and him would have gotten back together, the truth is she DID say in her 16&p episode that she wanted nothing to do with him, he was basically stalking her, etc. From what little was seen of him on 16&p (that phone call) he seems like he had some serious control/anger issues. So while she probably has alot of regret and idealized memories now that he’s gone, that reality is that like MOST of the other dads on this show, chances are he wouldn’t have really stepped up, they’d be broken up, and she’d have to be on his ass for child support and whatever else… and as for the part about him saying he’d be there for her if the baby wasn’t his?? there are VERY few young men who would do that, let alone when you’re 16 and been dating for a year or so… i doubt he ever said that. or meant it, anyway.
Nicolette

I’m crying