Another week, another episode of MTV’s 16 and Pregnant with SERIOUS baby daddy drama!
Episode four features Chelsea Houska and baby daddy Adam Lind of South Dakota and judging from the preview clip it’s going to be slacker boyfriend number four!
Here’s the 411 on Chelsea:
Full name: Chelsea Anne Houska
Age: 18 (17 when pregnant)
Daughter: Aubree Skye ??? (Don’t know if it’s Lind or Houska)
Aubree’s birthday: September 7, 2009
Hometown: Vermillion, South Dakota
Baby daddy: Adam Lind of Hartford, South Dakota
Dad: Randy Houska, a dentist (divorced)
Older sisters: Emily, Angie and Melissa
Grade: Senior in high school
Favorite Movie: Step Brothers
Favorite Cereal: Fruity Pebbles
Favorite Actor: Bradley Cooper
Tattoos: 1 on my hip (love in cursive), 1 on my wrist (blessed in cursive) 1 on the back of my neck (2 tiger lilies)
Favorite Colors: Orange and pink
Car: Orange Volkswagen Beetle convertible
Relationship status: SINGLE!
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According to Chelsea’s Formspring account she tried to make it work with Adam, but found out he was cheating on her with other girls and they eventually split up permanently. Three weeks ago she was still hopeful that they would get married, but on Tuesday she answered these Adam questions:
are you with adam still?
no
You think its a good thing that Adam isn’t in Aubree’s life? Or do you wish he was? Also, what made you want to name your beautiful daughter Aubree? Cute Girl!
umm…i think right now its for the best that he isnt, just because i dont think he’s mature enough to be a dad right now. but i always wish she had a mom AND a dad. i’ve always liked the name, i think its very cute and girlie..thank youuuuuu!!! :]
It seems, much like some of the other girls on the show, Chelsea and Adam have had an on again/off again relationship and they’re currently Off with a capital “O.” The two were broken up around Christmas time but apparently got back together on New Year’s. From Chelsea’s Formspring:
what made adam change the way he was?
he cheated on me over christmas break and i was f***ing over it. like done. and he came to my house on new years and tried making it better and idk i decided to get him one more chance and he’s doing a ton better
Here’s a photo from New Year’s posted on Adam’s Facebook page showing the happy couple back together:
Chelsea Houska and baby daddy Adam get back together on New Year’s
But, speaking of Adam’s Facebook, the most recent split between the two has turned rather vitriolic. Here are a couple posts from Adam from the last couple days:
Adam: f**k 16 and pregnant i did it for the cash 
[Friend's comment] Do you really mean this adam?? seriously you have one of the cutest baby girls in the world you should really take advantage of it… and i also don’t understand how people can actually like this status.. kind of disgusts me!
Adam [response]: wut does my status have to do wit my daughter i will always love her but i hate that stupid f**kng show and i hate stupid f**ng chelsea i dont give 2 sh*ts how many ppl like her statuses and how many ppl talk sh*t bout me to her and how many of my friends talk to her they can go right ahead but only a few ppl know the truth bout the crazy a$$ thats me and schlutz and cody so ya i am sorry thats just the way i am now all cuz of her
And in response to Chelsea’s quote on her Facebook page that reads, “any boy can make a baby but it takes a MAN to be a daddy.” Adam posted, “takes a girl to have a baby and take care of it but it takes a WOMEN to treat her man good and not be a complete f***ing PHSYCO!”
Yeeeesh! My take on these shows and teen pregnancy in general is that the girls aren’t able to live in denial because they see their growing bellies everyday, but it’s easier for the boys to pretend like nothing’s different. Plus, after the birth it’s usually the moms taking care of the child so once again it’s easy for the dad to not be forced to grow up. I suppose that’s an obvious observation, but I think it helps explain why 90% of the boys on these shows come off as jerks. They are jerks, but that’s mostly because they are teenagers who haven’t been forced to deal with the fact that they are fathers. (That doesn’t explain the psychotic viciousness of Nikkole’s Josh or the alcoholism of Jenelle’s Andrew.)
I’m not defending these boys, just saying that the show reveals that mothers can’t really pretend and act like they’re not pregnant. They can’t keep partying, they can’t go to the mall without people knowing they’re pregnant – they have to deal with it.
Here are a couple more interesting Q&As from Chelsea’s Formspring, including addressing being a party girl:
do you think that the partying and such led to you being less responsible about having protected sex?
probably ya
did u drink or smoke during your pregnancy?
never ever…EVER.
ah! who was ur favorite on team mom, i love maci,ryan and bentley and Caitlynn and tyler. Maci and ryan are so cute I hope they stay together
ummm..i like maci and farrah. i hope maci doesnt stay with ryan :/ he’s a jerk
What made you want to be on 16 & preg, and what was your reaction when you found out you were chosen?
welllll you see, i never actually thought i would get chosen, or that they would even write me back! hah. i watched the first season and i was pregnant at the time and i really was able to relate with some of the girls and watch how they handled certain situations, and i wanted to be able to do the same for other girls
We look forward to next Tuesday! Chelsea sounds like a fun girl with the maturity to step up and deal with the responsibilities of having a child while being a teenager. To see photos and videos of her beautiful daughter Aubree, hop on over to Chelsea Houska’s official Facebook page and become a fan!
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Uhm lets not forget the fact that ur a minor holding a budlight…wheres ur daughter at on her 1st new years??
Adam is doesnt know what he is missing on it brought me to tears everytime i see your episode your daughter is gorgoues just like her mommy. My friend looks just like you I was like o.m.g. Chelsea keep up the good work and give aubree a kiss for me.
very simple:
you are Hot
your ex is a mother*****
kiss from portugal
Hi Chelsea!
I loved your story, you are one of the best moms Ive seen on 16 and pregnant. You can tell how much you love your daughter. As for Adam, hes a complete immature idiot. Thank god your beautiful daughter got her looks from you and not that ugly moron. You are so gorgeous and I know in the future you’ll find a man that is truly a man and not a boy, who will love you and your daughter the way you two should be loved. Adam will realize his mistake in the future when he matures, their is nothing more important in life than family. Have a Amazing life, your an incredible person!
Opps had aother one LMAO! anyway, i saw the marathon yesterday and watched your story among many others, and yours touched my heart so much! i just want to first say what NO ONE else said on the show (well, what was shown from the show, but I hope and pray you hear this a lot) but baby girl, you are a d**n good mommy! I am so proud of you, your efforts, and your strength! i know it’s hard, but you keep doing what’s best for your little girl. She is an angel. No one can EVER take that away from you, and trust me she will know later in life when you are her are best of friends, where her “father’s” place in her life is. you are way better off. I was a teen mom, pregnanat at 16 too, had my first child at 17, he is 15 now, WOW and a hand full, but at 32 today he will be graduating when i am 36 and oh yeah, i will be the hot mom in the stands the day he graduates LOL … anyway i married his father at 18, and had 2 other kids with him, but 15 years later we divorced – i have been on my own now 3 years and wish i would have done it sooner, best thing i ever did. That’s a whole show in itself lol – but i have been where you are right now … your dad is the greatest dad in the whole wide world, and you will find that for your little girl some day, i promise. your beautiful, and smart and you have a lot of family support … you dont need him and it’s clear to me now that you realize that. I AM SO VERY PROUD OF YOU, AND YOU ARE A GREAT MOM CHELSEA! STICK WITH IT, E MAIL ME ANY TIME. TAKE CARE SWEETIE!
Chelsea the way Adam treated you was horrible no one deserves that. Aubree is freakin adorable and any man would be damn lucky to have you two in thier lifes. I know that you want Aubree to have her dad in her life, I mean what good mom doesn’t but she only deserves a daddy who treats her mommy right cause we may not know it but babies can feel the tention between the two of you. What he said to you was horrifying, it was asinine, ignorant and pig headed of him to say and what he said about Aubree should be illegal for anyone to say ” just tell me where and when to sign the papers over for that mistake” what a f**king d**k head. You and Aubree deserve so much more & I completly agree with you changing her last name… I love you and lil Aubree!!!! : P
Chelsea, Okay Hun I Know You Want Him In Your Life &l In Your Baby Aubrees Life.. But The Way He Treats You Will Only Get Worse He May Be Doing Better Now But In The Long Run He’ll Turn Around &l Do The Same…By Him Telling You That Your Not Being A Parent Is So Stupid Your Being More Of A Parent Then He Is Maybe You Should Just Tell Him You Need A Break &l Can’t Take His Crap Anymore, Im Almost Positive That He’ll Step Up Cause You’re Stepping Up Rather Then Letting Him Step All Over You!
Well There is my opinion.
hey girl i was watching u on tv just let me say u r not ugly or fat your babys dad is a pathetic dead beat who needs to put u down cuz he cant man up to his responsibilitys so he needs to make himself feel better which he really just sounds ignorant i know its hard cuz u want him in your lil girls life and u care for him alot but any guy would be lucky to have u and your adorable daughter in their life DONT LET ANYONE EVER PUT U DOWN CUZ YOUR A GOOD MOM AND PERSON TAKE CARE
Chelsea,
I never write or even look at people from TV shows, but I feel like I understand where you are coming from. I was 17 when I was pregnant and my ex was exactly the same as yours. A part of me always felt like I wanted to be with my ex and involve him in my babies life. My mistake was I married my ex. My ex would call and tell me what a piece of crap I was just because I went out once. You appear to be a good mom and just remember it gets better and there are great guys out there who don’t care that you have a baby and will love the both of you.
My daughter is now 7 and I am expecting a another baby with my husband who is wonderful. I just wanted to share that life without a jerk makes your life better even though at times you may feel alone in the long run your life will make more sense because you really learn who you are without anyone but you and your child. I hope this helps you.
Sara
Chelsea your real cute. if adam don’t want you, then i’ll take you and the baby. she’s adorable.
Just like you. Ya’ll can do better
Chelsea just slurped me up last week…and swallowed my nut, adam f**k off.
So far my favorites are Nikkole and Chelsea, XD they don’t annoy me
adam is a fricken dead beat!!