BEFORE THE 90 DAYS Jesse and Darcey break up after her drunk Instagram comments?

Before the 90 Days Jesse Darcey Ghost scene Instagram break up

It appears as though the eternal #twinflames are no longer burning together as Before the 90 Days‘ Jesse Meester and Darcey Silva look to have broken up after she posted a series of jealous and angry (and drunken?) comments on Jesse’s Instagram account.

The drama went down in the comments section of a video clip posted by Jesse in which he “branch”ed out from #Meesticism to #Treesticism as he admired a tree — and said as much:

“Good morning guys!” Jessie beams, with his trademark blonde cockscomb poking out of a white hoodie. “I was just admiring this beautiful tree outside. How are you doing?” Jesse then goes on to announce that he planned to be live with fans during Sunday night’s episode of Before the 90 Days via the TV Party App.

Just like most everything Jesse does, the video seemed innocent enough. As did a couple of comments left by a woman who wasn’t necessarily a fan of Jesse pitching an app, but who loves the show and #Darsse.

“I get the whole #90day thing. But advertising….not the strongest suit. I love you guys though♡” The commenter wrote. She then added: “looking forward to today’s episode #curious ?”

Everything still seems innocent — until Darcey chimes in: “Maybe you guys got something special,” she responded. Wait, what?!

“Not sure what you mean Darcy lol seems off topic,” the commenter replied.

“If u want him then just ask him,” Darcey wrote.

More from the original commenter and another who chimed in:

Drunk Darcey Silva Instagram comments

Jesse caught wind of Darcey contaminating his feed with negativity and offered up his apology:

Before the 90 Days Jesse Meester and Darcey Silva break up Instagram

Either Darcey or Jesse deleted her comments, and someone arriving to the show late asked: “What was the conversation with Darcy about?? Are they still together?” Jesse responded with a lengthy explanation, followed by another comment and another Jesse response:

JESSE: I think you haven’t seen what she did, did you? When she starts attacking fans out of the blue and embarras me I will apologize to these people. And that is exactly what I am doing and will keep doing it wether you are drunk again or not. This is not the first time and it keeps happening. When she does that they were already saying and seeing what was wrong with her. Her comments were offensive and she chose to go attacking on my page. So yes, I am apologizing when she is attacking fans and me out of nowhere. Everybody already saw it and was calling her out so I felt so bad and embarassed. It needs to stop and denying and looking away is not going to help. Always did that. But when it is publicly don’t say I called her out. She did and I had no clue until fans started messaging me and the hammered storm started here again. So Janice, when you don’t want people to see your issues, don’t put them on the table on yourself and then harming others in doing so.

COMMENTER: So sad I don’t understand she wanted this relationship she got what she wanted for you to fall in love with her then she sabotaged it and throws it all out the window that’s crazy I think she’s a wonderful person unfortunately she has a disease and maybe if she feel the consequences of losing you she will probably seek help No one is perfect we all make mistakes it’s all about learning from them if you don’t then all we can do is pray that one day they learn to love themselves enough to seek help.

JESSE: you took the words out of my mouth. This has been going on for over a year now and again she turned herself to the public attacking fans who just stated they were excited and happy to see us. This just gets worse and I’ve done nothing but be receptive and helpful (which wasn’t aired) and kept a lot to myself because it is something she needs to overcome. But now she is the one putting herself out there by attacking people here. This was just embarrassing. We can only hope and pray this is THE wake up call.

Before the 90 Days Jesse with Darcey drinking too many wines

Since the “too many wines” comment fiasco, both Darcey and Jesse have deleted all the photos of the other person from their Instagram feeds. Neither have addressed the split specifically, with Jesse returning to his trademark Meesticism while Darcey is posting TONS of throwback photos of herself and surreal video clips of her daughters.

The apparent break up comes less than two weeks after the two celebrated their one-year anniversary with dueling declarations of love. That was followed by more photos and more poetic proclamations leading right up to the moment Jesse expressed his admiration for a tree and it all fell apart.

Will Jesse and Darcey reconcile? Will the #twinflames be rekindled? Stay tuned!

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  • FrontDoorMom

    Lawd jesus!

  • melinehclassy

    She’s an adult. Let her drink!

    • It’s me

      I think the issue is that she has a drinking problem.
      Its not easy to just let someone drink if they abuse alcohol. Some people cant have 1 or 2 drinks, some people only drink to get drunk.
      I dont know her story but he did say she had a problem drinking

      • melinehclassy

        I get it babe but it sounds like she doesnt have a drinking problem (IMO) and he is just controlling. The guy acts like walking one man army

        • bingo32

          ITA. I have that gene where one is never enough.It got me into trouble so i said enough and quit ~20yrs ago. I saw nothing she did or say that night he accused her of being rip roaring drunk. SHe was more making a mockery of his extremely demanding ways. Perhaps she does drink to much but I haven’t seen it. What I have seen is some 23yo punk kid try to control a grown woman with waaay 2 many demands. What is happening in ur life Darcie that you would even think of putting up with this???

          • melinehclassy


          • melinehclassy

            Alcohol is never cool for anyone when we’re emotional but I don’t think she’s a drunk

        • FYO

          She’s basically admitted alcohol isn’t good for her, in a specific sense as in she loses control and gets herself in trouble often.

          The only thing `worse` than a person with a drinking problem is a person who pretends they don’t have one.

      • bohicasis

        HE has a problem with her drinking. That is HIS issue until she decides otherwise. AlAnon and deal with his own issues.

  • Che

    He’s annoying & so is she

  • Alisson Leech

    They are still together.

    • melinehclassy

      really? Just ysterday starcasm was saying they arent?

  • bohicasis

    If he thinks she has a problem it is not reasonable to demand she quit drinking. (20 yrs sober). He can focus on what he needs to do and commit to AlAnon. Personally, i don’t like his posturing. Threatening and abrasive. (my take on him). He doesn’t appear to mesh with her so why bother. I saw where she attempted to spk at the “live” show and he abruptly cut her off. Not the first time and it seems to be his pattern. (discounting her) As is he is in some place or position of power. And he knows it….seen it before. Holding his affection over her head and working from that place of ______.
    It would be best if she walked away and moved on. He is far too managerial.

    • Kat

      Perfectly said.

  • pmo

    these two were on reunion show last night, crazy eyes jesse is out of his mind. send his arse back to amsterdam.

    • Lily Mathers

      Eww, is he in the States now? The place he lives looks gorgeous, I would love to go there!

  • Bebe

    You could tell she was uncomfortable when he came out last night (reunion show). I got an abusive vibe from him. I think she tries so hard not to be herself just to fit this image he wants and it’s really sad. She’s very concerned with how she comes off, but I think we saw his true colors at last.

    • FYO

      They simply don’t seem like a good fit. Darcey is an attention h-oar, desperately seeking affirmation and approval via social media. It’s really sad & pathetic. Jesse does seem a bit controlling but then maybe what we’re seeing is him constantly working against Darcey’s immaturity.

  • Fame whores.

    • Lily Mathers

      Um, if you watch it what then does that make you?
      This is such a niche show, no one is getting famous from TLC! LOL

  • Sheryl McCormick

    I don’t know if she has a drinking problem…it is hard to tell unless you know her personally. TV shows are edited so you aren’t given a complete picture. My opinion is that they are in a toxic relationship and may be confusing their incompatibility with passion. Jesse may be attracted to older women because he is seeking a partner with maturity. If so, he picked the wrong one. I have never been a fan of her’s but after watching the Tell All I am no longer a fan of his. When he was standing over her while she was on the sofa was so aggressive and intimidating that I really started to worry. Not so much for her but for her daughters. Children learn by watching their parent(s) and I wouldn’t want my daughter to think a man hulking over her while while yelling is perfectly fine. I watched an interview he did with a YouTube host and he seems to think abuse is only physical. Darcy and Jesse are both adults with the ability to walk away from each other. I completely agree that there is way more going on between them than what has been aired. He probably has a valid reason for being so angry..I know she promised him that she would never drink again and has apparently broken that promise. The mature thing to do is to accept that you may love someone but that doesn’t mean they are good for you. They seem to bring out the worst in each other.

    • bohicasis

      Her drinking is her concern. He has no place to say otherwise. Trying to excerpt some type of control over someones drinking is futile. AlAnon is the best option. I clearly see his trying to attempt control and i certainly did see that abusive posturing. He discounts her at every turn yet attempts to shower her with attention. He was abrupt and cut her off at the live show.He has done this more than once. His anger…it shows at every turn. If he is so annoyed what is he doing with her? Play acting? I am a bit concerned that she seems to have fallen into a pattern of being gaslit. If they enter into something more permanent it is going to be extremely hard for her to get out from under it.
      I don’t trust his ways one bit. Scary. Seen it far too often.

      • Sheryl McCormick

        You are 100% correct.

  • Lily Mathers

    Is it just me or does she think she looks waaaaaaayyyy younger than she does? And that hair! Why? No!
    He is a nice looking 20-something who has no need to come to the States for a better life, so I have always been completely lost when it comes to these two!