PHOTOS LHHNY Cardi B’s boyfriend Tommy blows up relationship in letters from prison: ‘F*ck you Stank Dirty B!tch’

Cardi B boyfriend Tommy 3

The Cardi B boyfriend Tommy relationship has been a rocky one for months, thanks to the increasing popularity of the LHHNY star. After all, it wasn’t that long ago when Cardi revealed she intended to marry Tommy in an exercise yard ceremony at the very prison where he’s doing time. And, shortly after that, she let pregnancy gossip about herself and Tommy reach a high, rolling boil before dialing the heat back. So, recently, after Cardi went too long without writing to him, Tommy decided to slap his girlfriend down hard–and Cardi published his letters to her on her Instagram page. Of course, Cardi also doesn’t truck with haters, so her response was exactly the brush-off you’d expect.

Though she deleted the two letters not too long after publishing them, the intrepid gossipsters at Fameolous managed to snag screencaps of both. Here’s the first of the two, with a transcription beneath. It sounds quite a bit gentler and kinder than the second…

Cardi B boyfriend Tommy 1

Wassup lil bro? I need somebody to talk to I’m tired was just listening to music & working out tryna keep my mind clear feel me…I miss you son…Gangsta…Do me a favor send me some fine pictures I miss that thang & I need to relieve some stress lol send them priority don’t bullsh!t though help a n!gga jerk off lol no nudes though just lingerie or something son…I ain’t gon lie my mind is f*cked up right now but I’m getting better I didn’t know it would feel like this losing you partially I didn’t mind losing you but this sh!t hurt lol I feel empty without you lil bro…you still gon be my valentine? I’m gangsta but Ima be honst I been crying over your b!tch a$$ lol then I curse myself out & just workout I was living in a fairytale thinking Ima come home cuddle up with you & just hae mad sed & be happy SMH but I’ll holla though I love you be safe

And here’s the second letter, which appears to have been written some time later; it’s not clear if the date that Tommy mentions is the 22nd of December, or an earlier month. Nonetheless, he’s not pleased:

Cardi B boyfriend Tommy 2

B!tch you a Dubb…I just got a letter from my mom that she sent on the 22nd Which #1 means you never sent a letter or I would have got it already #2 you talking about everything else besides being here #3 Suck My D!ck If you don’t want t be around Don’t I ain’t choosing ya B!tch a$$

Why my bunkee get mail and I don’t WTF!!! Lol it’s aight tho Tommy gon get right

I be home soon I don’t need you or sh!t from you I’m good on my own

f*ck you stank

Don’t write me
Don’t come see me
Don’t think about me

One curious note about the Cardi B boyfrend Tommy letters: their handwriting definitely looks feminine. It’s not impossible that a man would dot his lowercase i’s and j’s with open circles, but it’s definitely unusual, to say the least…

But, regardless of who wrote the letters, Cardi certainly doesn’t seem bothered. Shortly after deleting the two posts above, she shared this Instagram update:

I lie ,I cheat ,I steal ?

A photo posted by Cardi B Official IG (@iamcardib) on

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(Photo credits: Cardi B boyfriend Tommy via Instagram, h/t to Fameolous)

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  • pmo

    anybody know anything about this dude, tommy?

    • Victoria

      All I know is. He doesn’t know how to spell

      • Jackie

        Cardi is to good for a jailbird. Cardi please reach higher.

  • Alisson Leech

    Cardi B is too pretty to be so stank!!

  • Yup, I said it

    A jailbird refering to his girlfriend as “son” and other male pronouns is suspect at hell.

    • pmo

      very bizarre.

    • LoLo

      That drives me nuts. I see guys calling girl “bro” too. I hate that.

    • E.C. from D.C.

      He’s a male bird….clear he never learned how to talk to a woman.

  • wilmings

    Phck tommy. Let his lol bish a$s stew. Y’all broke up so y would she write? Let alone send pics. Duces “bro”. Stop being a petty betty bug a boo!

  • LoLo

    I love how the criminal sets expectations for a girlfriend he refers to as “son”. If the roles were reversed he would not be waiting, faithfully for her. He wants her money & to make sure she’s there to support him when he gets out. Same goes for Mendeecees. I would bet that he might stay with Yandy if she were locked up but he would not be faithful. If Yandy did not have a dollar to support him & if she did not keep his account funded he would be on to the next.

    • Why is this happening to us?

      Yandy is just as much of a fool as the rest of these women….and to think, I used to think she was an intelligent woman and had more respect for herself. Those days are long gone. Her true colors came out with the whole Mendeecees and the baby mommas situation. She is mad at them when it’s Mendeecees who is to blame for getting these other girls pregnant.

      • Noxy


        Back when I was young and dumb, my ex got locked up, we broke up, and then he wanted me back when I had money for his commissary. Lol

        • Why is this happening to us?

          Of course he did…lol
          I just feel with Yandy, she acts as if she won some damn prize with Mendeecees. I’m sorry, but her man is locked up for 8 years- he is no prize!

      • LoLo

        I feel the same way. I thought she was to smart for this show & had her act together. Nope. She calls Erika all kinds of names and then expects her to let her child go to her house. I would NEVER let my child go to anyone’s home after they spoke like that about me. I am so over her referring to Mendeecees as her husband, he’s not. If they wanted a spiritual ceremony than say that, don’t have a wedding & wear that type of ring. I understand that she does not want the other mamas claiming her money. She could have taken care of that legally. In all the arguments between the mamas, I have never heard them once say they wanted Mendeecees, were in love with him or cared that he moved on. It’s about their kids. I can’t stand how they all bow down to Mendeecees like he’s some God. He’s a felon & had kids with 3 different women. He’s far from a catch. Just because he speaks nicely to his children does not make him a father or a good man.

  • Kathy key fitzpatrick

    Oh my god. This Tommy guy needs to try to salvage what’s left of his manhood, get out, get his OWN everything, because Cardi’s life has totally exploded and there is no room or time for him. He will end up looking like a hanger-on, totally in her shadow, bringing nothing to the table. He’s at a terrible disadvantage but that’s what happens when you get locked up, life goes on.
    He should be grateful she sent money for commissary.
    His ego and pride SHOULD keep him away from her since she’s got Offset and whoever else around her all the time. She isn’t the same person as she was before he got locked up.
    His place was taken when he left it open. His fault. I hope he gets his shit together by himself so he can be proud of what HE has done, not what someone GAVE him out of guilt/pity or whatever.
    I hope he doesn’t get out and get busted for something else as a way to blame his inability to “make it.” “They keep locking me up, holding me down, I can’t catch a break!”
    No, YOU are the one locking yourself up, you are the one holding yourself back, You are the one preventing yourself from getting any breaks!
    She may care for him in a real sense, but she will NOT let him interfere with her career. Her handlers have been anticipating his release, so they have a plan in place as Cardi is THEIR meal ticket, TOO, ya know!

  • Chobani

    He’s referring to her as “son?” I’m thinking that he’s gay…