Actual Amanda Bynes is engaged to a 19-year-old named Caleb, she announces

Typically, getting engaged is cause for celebration. However, in the case of Amanda Bynes, almost everything about her announcement is concerning.

The actual Amanda told InTouch on Sunday that she’s accepted the proposal of a man named Caleb.

“I am very needy for friendship and I hate men. I want to f**k them, but I can now say I’m engaged — get away from me,” said Amanda, 28. “I want to be married and I want to be away from people.”

So, who is Amanda’s fiancé? She explained the 19-year-old works at a bait shop in California, but she hopes they can permanently relocate to New York City so she can walk and ride her bike. (That’s probably a good idea.)

“I really do not enjoy driving,” she said. “I don’t like the way I look in a car. The lighting is very bad.”

Although the pair hasn’t set a wedding date, Amanda said they plan to wed at The London, a hotel in Los Angeles. Then she wants to get to work on having lots of baby boys.

“I want boys, for sure. However many I can pop out,” she said. “I don’t want a gorgeous girl around. Then I [would] feel way jealous. Ew.”

For now, Amanda’s engagement claim appears to be valid — at least to her — as she’s has been pictured with a large gem on her left ring finger since arriving in New York City. Unfortunately, Amanda’s friends and family believe the former child star is “is absolutely out of control,” but they can’t get through to her.

“She isn’t getting engaged. She’s delusional. This is just more proof of her shaky mental state,” a source told Radar Online. “[Amanda’s siblings] fear for her safety and well-being, especially since Amanda is now in New York City. They’re afraid she’s going to die there.”