By now we’re all exhausted with the Bentley storyline on The Bachelorette, but it still hasn’t reached the painful peak of the heartbreak villian jetting over to Hong Kong for a free vacation and to lead Ashley on some more.

Apparently a big source of the drama tonight doesn’t focus on Ashley’s reunion with Bentley, but on the way news of his return affects her attitude towards the other guys.

Cosmopolitan did all the leg work that your BFF is supposed to do and rounded up the most datable guys from the United States. After the poles, I mean polls closed Mr. Ryan “Mickey” McLean from the great state of Ohio has been declared the winner!

Find out more about this gorgeous 30-year-old chef from Cleveland, including his email ladies!