BEFORE THE 90 DAYS Darcey and Jesse are still together, according to Darcey and Jesse

Before the 90 Days Darcey Jesse Titanic

As we reported back in July, it appeared that the fairy tale romance between Before the 90 Days‘ Darcey Silva and her hunky Dutch Boy beau Jesse Meester was over as Darcey angrily declared on Facebook: “So over it!!!! Now he can f**k all the other b**ches!!!” But it appears as though the happy ending may be back on track as both Darcey and Jesse took to soshull meedya (love ya Mo!) this week to share mushy gushy posts about their undying love for one another!

Darcey posted this rather low quality photo of her and Jesse on Instagram over the weekend and added a lengthy caption in which she channels Tammy Wynette in her proclamation “I will always love and stand by my Man:”

Before the 90 Days Darcey and Jesse together Instagram

I Love you ❤️

To everyone in the world who has a compassionate heart and gentle ear to listen to my heartfelt message. I am sorry if you don’t feel me…I am only here for love. I truly want you to know from the bottom of my heart and soul that I will always love and stand by my Man. He is a strong, loving, trustworthy, compassionate and respectable man! I will always love him, trust and believe in him with all my love deep in my soul! We all need to trust in our hearts to give, feel and receive love. I trust in him and will always believe in our love, soul connection and bond. I thank you and I am grateful for you all for having a open heart to listen with love, understanding and compassion in your hearts! It’s all in the power of love…I love you all. ❤️

Jesse also professed his affection on Instagram, albeit in the comments section in reaction to someone that apparently had some negative things to say about Darcey. (The comments have since been deleted, so I couldn’t track down the original that Jesse is responding to here.)

You make me laugh. You like to think that, don’t you? She never said such a thing. 3 months ago she wrote: “i’m over it. He can f*ck all the other b*tches now as seen on gossip articles. Out of frustration and vulnerability she wrote that. Is that ok? No. It that nice/smart? Absolutely not. And she knows my opinion very well about this. But we never broke up. So watch the show to see how it will go between us. There’s more to come. Darcey had that public “writing tendency” 3 months ago. I distant myself from that behavior and find it immature, and she knows that. It only causes confusion. And sometimes, that confusion is really fun, because people love to elaborate on that and create even more stories. So more laughs for me. I did a youtube video on this subject. She apologized for that comment right after. And after that post she decided to step away from social media which I respect her for. I support her, but I am not in control of what she does or writes. Nothing but love. All the best to you, Jesse

So there you have it! Darcey’s angry outbursts were just a “public ‘writing tendency'” and the two “never broke up.” Do I believe it? Nah. I think they are just covering their tracks for show producers. I’m guessing Darcey got into a bit of hot water with her previous comments and the two are trying to dispel the spoiler for viewers. Of course, it is possible that Darcey and Jesse (who both seem to be quite savvy as far as business and marketing go) have realized that if they are broken up, there will more than likely be no more TLC air time for them should there be a follow-up series. The two could easily go one more round in the traditional 90 Day Fiance format in which Jesse comes to the United States on a K-1 visa. I could see it playing out right up until the wedding day when one or the other calls it all off — all pre-planned of course. That is just a theory though!

Anyways, let’s get back to Jesse’s post. I’ve expressed my admiration for Jesse before, and I dubbed his brand of psychology meets physiology meets philosophy wrapped in positivity as “Meesticism.” I am honored to say that Jesse liked the term so much he created a new Facebook page under that name! I couldn’t be more honored.

And speaking of Meesticism, here is one of his most recent examples that accompanied a boy band worthy picture of Jesse from a recent photo shoot. Of course, I couldn’t help but give it the animated gif treatment:

Jesse Meester animated gif eyes

Ah, but Jesse isn’t the only hot blonde in this relationship! WHUH?! That’s right, it appears as though Darcey has left the dark side in favor of some lighter locks. Oh, and Darcey is giving Jesse a run for his money in the ocular verbiage department as well:

Darcey Silva blonde hair photo

❤️ you can see your love in my eyes…the gaze between two souls…twinflame divine love❤️#soullove #eternity #twinflames #unite #twinsoul #mirror #soulconnection #divinegrace #beloved #loveyou ❤️

Hmmmm… I don’t want to show any sort of favoritism, so I need to come up with a term for Darcey’s brand of insight too. I thought of three off the top of my head:


Here is another blonde Darcey photo that recently surfaced on a Before the 90 Days fan page. I cannot ascertain the provenance, though I assume it is recent. (Darcey is constantly deleting and undeleting her Facebook page, and it is currently in “deleted” mode.)

Darcey Silva blonde

After a one week hiatus, Darcey and Jesse will be back this week for the new episode of Before the 90 Days, which airs an hour earlier on Sunday at 8/7c on TLC.

Speaking of Darcey and Jesse’s hiatus, what do you think about the show’s format of leaving off two couples every week? Personally, I wouldn’t mind except that there are a couple of story lines I’m just not interested in. I think maybe they could have just pared down the show to four couples — I won’t say which, although Jesse and Darcey would DEFINITELY make the cut!

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  • Bebe

    I want to believe! ? I always hope these nuts have some feeling for each other.

  • veronica deleon

    Train wreck..another women thinking a young man is gonna stick around. Why not??! Sure you can find a man your age in the US. Don’t cry Wolfe later.

  • FYO

    The significant age gap is going to get old, and Darcey’s obsession with social media is going to get old. Jesse is young but seemingly mature for his age. Darcey is older but really immature for hers. I don’t see how that is going to last.

  • sw10397

    She’s nutty as a fruitcake. She said in last week’s episode that she doesnt want him to think she’s pressuring him for marriage-but that’s all the bitch talks about! Are you ready to change your relationship status on social media? Oops I “forgot” my ring, guess we better find a new one to put on it. Are you ready to meet my daughters, you’re going to be their daddy? Ring, engaged, marriage….ring, engaged marriage, ring engaged, marriage. I think those really are the only 3 words this psycho knows.

    • star1234

      She is not subtle–and noww she and Jesse want to stay on the gravy train, apparently–choo choo!

  • Suzanne Parvin

    It’s good TV peeps. So kindly keep doing just that. I’m hooked on this show and have to say goodbye to the old guys. So having to become obsessed with the new couples, loving this nutty behavior.
    Hope Darcy and Jesse can better up Mohamed and Danielle.
    Good luck with that!

    • FYO

      Everyone slows down to look at a car crash.

      • Suzanne Parvin

        Right? And a creepy one at that.

    • star1234

      Ah but can they compete with Awan and Whatsis? and what about the creepy old guy who bought all the panties?

      • Suzanne Parvin

        OMG you had to remind me of the panties guy? No stabbing that one out of my mind’s eye… easier to JUST stab out my mind’s eye…. crimes against nature these people. Too bad they can’t enforce those laws.

  • Laylajane

    What site are they meeting these people on or is TLC finding them. Lol

  • sahali735

    Everyone on the entire planet knows this will never work. With the exception of Darcey, it seems.

  • FrontDoorMom

    Omg she is so annoying lol poor guy is trying to be nice it seems.

    • boomdeyay

      The Florida McDonald’s guy was on phillipinocupid.

  • boomdeyay

    I want more Darcy, more Abby and Chris and more Karine. I just FF through the other couples. And no more of the “here are the happy couples making a salad and having babies”. BORING. Boring except for Bev. Bev never disappoints. I would like Bev to host the next tell all special because SHE would get to the bottom of all of the BS!

  • star1234

    I thin 90 Day Fiance has gotten beyond itself…They are recycling (so sick of the previous ones), showing stuff before the show (will some break up? Watch the show!)….etc etc. It was better with one season, one group, reunion–bam!

    • star1234

      PS I am REALLY FOR SURE over Melanie and Devar and that scary “sister Melanie.” Spare us!

  • Heidi Betrug

    Clearly Jesse is in this for the publicity but Darcey’s just pathetic. Old, overwieght and trashy (That makeup. The clothes. Those ghetto nails, That hair!), Sometimes I think she really believes he’s interested in her. Poor desperate old crone.

  • PoliticallyIncorrect

    I gotta wonder what’s wrong with him. He can’t find a decent woman his own age in his home country?? Darcey is a mess.

  • Sandra Warner Stonehill

    She needs to stop pretending shes 19…..She thinks marriage is a cure all….That poor guy. He deserves a normal girl his age. I feel sorry for her daughters.