MUG SHOT Teen Mom Farrah Abraham’s mother Debra Danielsen arrested!
          

Teen Mom Farrah's mom Debra Danielsen from the Reunion special

Here is the mug shot for Debra Danielsen, the mother of Farrah Abraham of the popular MTV reality shows 16 and Pregnant and Teen Mom, who was arrested at her home in Council Bluffs after an alleged domestic disturbance involving her daughter:

Farrah Abraham's mother Debra Danielsen mug shot

UPDATE 2/27/2010 – Debra Danielsen asks for a plea deal

The Southwest Iowa News broke the story and according to the paper the disturbance started in the kitchen when Abraham, 18, and Danielson, 54, were having a disagreement over childcare issues, as they often do on the show. Danielson would eventually throw an MTV shirt at Farrah, which landed near Sophia (Farrah’s baby) and the child began to cry. That’s when things began to get out of hand. According to the paper:

Reports stated Abraham was yelling at Danielson over the incident when Danielson allegedly grabbed Abraham by the throat. Abraham pushed Danielson’s hand away from her, at which time Abraham alleges Danielson struck her on the right side of the head and her mouth.

When police arrived Farrah had multiple cuts on the side of her lips. Farrah still lives with her mother so Danielson was arrested on suspicion of domestic abuse-serious assault.

UPDATE 1/20 - Radar Online is reporting that Danielson appeared in court January 20 and did not enter a plea. She will return February 26 for a preliminary hearing, at which point the judge will decide whether or not the case will go to trial. The site also obtained copies of the documents associated with the arrest, which didn’t reveal anything we didn’t already know. (Though it was surprising that Debra Danielsen was listed as a male in the Initial Incident Report) Here is the summarizing narrative:

On the date of this report, the arrest, Debra Danielsen had been arguing in the home’s kitchen with the victim (daughter, Farrah Abraham) over child care issues as well as other problems. The two both live together at [deleted] Willow Avenue.

The victim stated that Danielson threw a MTV Tee shirt at her. The shirt landed on near the victim’s infant daughter who began to cry. The victim was yelling at Danielson over the shirt throwing and Danielson grabbed her by the throat. The victim pushed Danielson’s hand away from her. Victim stated that Danielson then hit her along the right side of her head and hit her in the mouth. I observed multiple small cuts to the right side of the victim’s mouth.

Photos of the victim’s face and neck were taken by this officer and placed into property management.

Debra Danielsen was arrested for domestic Abuse Serious.

See report supplements for further details.

This is nothing new for the mother-daughter duo who foreshadowed this event in an episode of 16 and Pregnant, the MTV reality series Farrah first appeared on before returning for Teen Mom this season. Farrah and her mother were riding in a car and got into a heated argument and as tensions and voices began to rise Danielson says, “That’s why you’re having a beautiful situation right now, huh Farrah?”

To which Farrah replies, “Yeah, because I have to deal with you, you’re right!”

At that point Farrah’s mom reaches across and smacks Farrah on the shoulder and screams, “I’ve heard enough!” in what Dr. Drew calls “The Slap Heard Around The World.”

Farrah Abraham, mother Debra Danielsen and Dr. Drew

In the 16 and Pregnant Reunion Special Dr. Drew asks Danielson about the slap, “Is it OK to hit your kid? Do you want Farrah to hit Sophia?”

Despite having just seen the entire thing on multiple large-screen high definition televisions, Danielson replies, “I don’t even know that I actually hit her. I was driving down the road kind of fast and I hit something.”

Farrah laughs as Dr. Drew continues, “Do you regret yelling at her?”

Debra: “No.”

Dr. Drew: “You don’t regret hitting her?”

Debra: “No. I think that as a parent, if you love your child, you have to tell them when enough is enough on something. You’re there to guide them. It doesn’t mean you’re overbearing as I’ve been called, but it means that you have to love them.”

Dr. Drew asks Farrah, “Is your mom overbearing?”

Farrah responds, “She’s my mom.”

Dr. Drew: “Is your mom overbearing?”

Farrah: “I would say no. No, Dr. Drew, no.”

Here’s the full reunion episode thanks to MTV – Farrah and her mother are in the very first segment, starting at the 3:40 mark:

Read more about Farrah Abraham, including the tragic death of her child Sophia’s father in a car accident last year, by clicking HERE.

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    • twentytwelve

      Farrah deserves to be b!+chslapped!

    • KK

      I think Farrah’s Mom is a total controlling b**ch! This article and mug shot only confirmed my opinion. I mean just look at her attitude towards her daughter….it’s all the time!! She picks on Farrah instead of helping her and being there for her! I wish Farrah and her daughter Sophia the very best in life. I hope good ol’ Debra will change her ways and see what a negative impact she is making on her daughter AND granddaughter’s lives! Maybe Debra is stressed out to the max…I’m sure Farrah is too. Not knowing what the future will bring for her and her daughter. It’s hard enough to be a teen mother raising a baby by yourself (with out the help of the father)but to have to live with an unsupportive, ABUSIVE mother too. WOW!

      • kubla khan

        Farrah’s parents are raising her child while Farrah hangs out with her friends. Farrah’s mom nags at her because Farrah is being a selfish brat and an irresponsible mother. Controlling? NO. She’s a mom. Her mom is completely supportive — she’s supporting Farrah financially and her daughter, and she’s essentially raises Farrah’s daughter with little help from Farrah. I feel sorry for Farrah’s daughter!

      • Aerie

        You’re out of your mind. Her mother puts a (pretty darn nice) roof over her head. Feeds her child. Feeds her. I guess it’s just oh so controlling of her to try to keep her TEENAGE DAUGHTER from getting knocked up. AGAIN. The girls a s**t who doesnt take care of her kid. Get real.

    • Lydia

      Her mother should have hit her a$$. Look at the way she disrespects both of her parents on the show. Yelling at them both constantly, telling them to shut the f**k up when they take care of her and her child and provide her and her baby with a roof over their heads and she pays them back like that. Farrah is disrepectful, unappreciative little b**ch. If i were her mother i would have done the exact same thing to her. No one should disrespect their parents the way she disrespects hers. She is talking smart to her mother in her house so her mother has a right to hit her. If she continues to let Farrah get away with talking to her like trash, then she’ll think that she can keep getting away with it. That is why white people children are so disrespectful to them, because white people don’t disciple their children.

      • michelle

        You made some really good points untill you said something about white people and their kids! You just made yourself look and sound like a complete and utter idiot!

        • Aerie

          agreed, michelle.

      • anon

        I agree with michele. You did say some good stuff until you started saying that about white people. Thats like saying black parents dont dicipline their children enough because they make up most of the crime in america.

        • rukidding

          Your argument lost all validity, just like Lydia’s, once you made the idiotic comment “Thats like saying black parents dont dicipline their children enough because they make up most of the crime in america”. Firstly, you should research your data before making incorrect statements. Secondly, the two statements have nothing to do with each other. Lydia would have been more correct to say that children do not respect parents that do not instill discipline in them (without her mentioning the color of their skin; because that is all children regardless of their parent’s race). You however tried to use an argument that makes no sense and is statistically incorrect. Plus, what does discipline have to do with individuals committing crime?

      • susan

        There is nothing worse than a racist wetback, if you don’t like white people b*tch ,go back to Mexico.

        • melisa

          okay first off how do you even know that was a mexican that said that, proving how ignorant you are and second off learn your history mexicans are in their homeland and americans were the first immigrants to arrive here and sounds like your the racist one using the word wetback so please if your going to be posting a comment on here dont be a ignorant

      • MotherOfTwo

        White people? Really? What does skin color really have to do with it? I discipline my children without laying a hand on them. They are well behaved and happy children. So you really need to quit with the stereo typing!

    • Nina

      Farrah is a kid who should have never gotten pregnant. She’s very immature and she’s not a very good mother. Her mom is more patient with her than I would be. Any time your kid, who you take care of, (has a baby and expects you to take care of the baby too)disrespects you, she deserves to be slapped.

      • Jessica Coccia

        I AGREE W/YOU 100%

    • Travis Kleinman

      I understand that farrah is not doing a great job raising her child, but she is going through alot with her daughters father dying in a crash, being a single mother, still a child and obviously she needs to have friends for support because her mom is not a well person. farrah is going through alot of stress!!!! she is not a brat she is just going through a biga$$ load of stress. she should still obey her mother because shes still a minor but no, its not easy having your own child and getting told what to do.

      • http://starcasm.net ashley

        she’s not a minor. she’s 18.

    • Ash

      All i can say is i hope for Sophia’s sake both of em get their crap together. I think Farrah should move out of her moms house. I think that would do them both some good.. make her relationship better with her mother so their not always fighting & hopefully make her grow up some!! AND im a 20yr old mother of two kids.. im white & their father is black & they are very well disciplined.. they are two of the most well behaved & well mannerd kids you could ever meet. =)

    • Trina

      If anyone deserves to be choked it’s her.

    • Anon

      I cannot believe how selfish Farrah is. It’s bizarre(well,not completely bizarre considering her faith) to me that her mother KNEW she was this kind of irresponsible, piece-of-s**t person and didn’t drive her a** to the clinic.

      No one should have to take care of their kid’s kid, and now Debra will never get rid of that leech Farrah because she’s not going to throw-out her infant granddaughter.

      • jazz

        get a life anon her mother should not put a hand on any oneand as a mother i could not imagine hitting any one

    • j

      i think this situation is a very sad one, the baby’s father died that must put a toll on farrah, even though he seemed like a creep. i’m sure they had good times, they made a beautiful daughter together also. i’m so sick of you stupid people saying farrah deserved to be slapped, you are all crazy, no one derseves that at all, especailly infront of sophia. if i was farrah i would take my baby and get the heck out of there her mother needs help, and so do you crazy people!

      • malaki21

        whos dad farrah’s or farrah’s daughter?? but either way i think you need to give respect in order to get it and farrah doesn;t give it at all so why should she get in return i just think that if she is going to be living at HER MOMS HOUSE then she needs to respect them

    • Bloblo

      Farrah deserves a lot more than some cuts on her lip. If I was her mother, I would kick her out of my house and cut her off. She is such a brat!!

    • TN

      I would beat Fareah so hard if I was her parent

    • Rad_Rosa89

      The way I see it is, yeah Farrah hasn’t grown up to see that she has a baby that she NEEDS to take care of and love and not going out and acting like a kid everyday of her life, especially since her baby is so young. Also her mother is controling in a sense, not for taking yelling at her for not taking care of her kid, BUT for not seeing the way Farrah sees the word, what she should have done is sit with Farrah and have a heart to heart without getting all crazy..

    • meow

      I live in Iowa, and its possible for both of them to be put on the child abuse registry for this violent episode Sophia had to witness…very sad situation.

    • malaki21

      i think its good that the mom finally stood up for her self i hat the way that farrah treats her parnets especially calling her dad by his first name instead of dad or daddy i just think that girl got what she needed maybe it will teach her something!!!

    • michelle

      while i don’t condone violence in front of children, i have to say that farrah neede a butt whippin a long time ago. spare the rod spoil the child. when your child thinks that he or she can talk to you any kind of way, they have obviously lost respect for you. is that right? no. how do you think farrah will feel when sophia tries the same antics that farrah gives her mother now? i bet she won’t like it and she’ll feel frustrated in turn. it looks to me that farrah has gotten away with her behavior because her mother wanted to be “friends”. forget that. i am a parent. i am not my childs friend. that means that they WILL treat me with respect especially in my home when i am paying all the bills and feeding them. i don’t see farrah doing this. that lead me to believe that miss farrah is a very spoiled and haughty child, and i do mean child. she thinks she is too pretty and cute for anyone to tell her no. i feel sorry for her because the world does not care to put up with superficial and spoiled children. i feel most sorry for sophia because on some level, that child has to sense that her mother is not all that invested in her at this time. will it change? we don’t know, but if ms. danielson had taken a more stringent line, perhaps her daughter would have respected her more in her own house. farrah should move out so she can really see what it is like to raise a child on he own, but after this incident, if i was ms. danielson, i would kick farrah out since she’s so grown and all.

    • anon

      As much as I hate Farrah, you’re all crazy to say she deserves to be hit. NO ONE deserves to be hit, not matter what you say. Would you hit your child? No you wouldn’t and if you would then you shouldn’t have children because spanking doesn’t work.

    • Megan

      You people are so dumb. I think her mother is so annoying and I can’t stand watching the show when she comes on. You people don’t realize that it’s reality tv and they take one part of the person.. in farrah’s instance her always wanting to go out. They make it seem worse then it probably really is. AND it’s not like Farrah didn’t try to get out of her house, she looked for apartments! So I wouldn’t say she is taking advantage of her mother, her mom want’s to help.

    • J

      Honestly farrahs a disrespectul broad but even then the whole hitting her situation is overboard, I watch that show and as a teen mom I get where she’s comes from it’s pretty frustrating trying to raise a baby alone and still having someoe on your back nagging you constantly on wat they believe is right for YOUR child.

      • Tasha

        If you don’t want someone on your neck then get out on your own! “Raising a baby” Ha! you still need raiseing yourself. getting knocked up and haveing a baby does not make you an adult sweetheart!

    • Jacie

      Who cares, why does everyone seem to be in their buisness!? It’s theire life so people stay out of it !

      • Tasha

        If she didnt want people in her business she would be on t.v. Lol get a clue!

    • Brittany

      ATTENTION!!! I think people are so caught up on what Farrah does and it does make her seem like a bad mom at times but i’m pretty sure she is doing the best she can. !! YOU GUYS DO NOT KNOW THE FULL STORY OF WHAT THIS GIRL IS GOING THROUGH. IF YOU WATCH THE EPISODES INSTEAD OF SEEING A GIRL ALWAYS WANTING TO GO OUT ON DATES YADA YADA BUT DEEP DOWN INSIDE SHES TRYING TO FIND A FATHER FOR SOPHIA, SHE STILL HASENT EVEN DEALT WITH THE PAIN OF LOOSING SOPHIAS FATHER. SHE HAS BROKE DOWN NUMEBROUS TIMES AND NO ONE SEEMS TO TAKE HER TO COUNCELING MABEY THAT COULD HELP? (I DONT KNOW IF SHES IN COUNCELING) BUT I THINK SHE NEEDS IT, SHE MUST HAVE ALOT OF PAIN INSIDE. BEING A TEEN MOM GOING TO SCHOOL AND WORKING AND DEALING WITH EMOTIONAL PAIN KNOWING THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILD IS NEVER GOING TO BE THERE TO HOLD YOUR DAUGHTER. THE THOUGHT OF THAT JUST BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYES OF NOW. AND FARRAHS MOTHER IS PROBALLY JUST FRUSTATED BECAUSE SHE DOSENT KNOW WHAT TO DO !. IM NOT ON NOBODYS SIDE BECAUSE FARRAH IN RETURN IS DISRESPECTFUL TO HER MOTHER AT TIMES AND THAT IS WRONG BUT I REALLY THINK ITS DEEPER THEN THAT.

      • AGregg

        I agree, it’s very hard being a single teenage mother… My little girl was born in march of 2009, three days after her 18year old father and the love of my life passed away! I am now 19 and trying my hardest to raise my daughter, going to school working and taking care of her… It’s not easy and people are always in my business. I know alot of how Farrah feels, yes she is a mother but she is also young and has a life of her own. She is doing good as far as I can tell, and no one needs to say anything unless they are in her place. She may not have been with the father at the time of the accident, but I’m sure it still hurts….. I think people just need to get off her back and let her do her thing, and raise her daughter!!!!

    • Tasha

      I don’t understand how anyone can say that Farrah is right and her mother is wrong! What? Farrah is rude and extremely disrespectful. Also while it is a common belief in the black community that white people do not discipline thier children enough it is not held by all. I know some white folks that will slap the snot out of thier kids! If one of my children disrepected me the way she does her mom I would be in a mug shot too! I brought you into this world and I’ll take you out of it before I ever allow you to talk to me like i’m just anyother broad on the street! We need to realise that all children are not the same and while some are easily correctable others need a strong rod of discipline. The problem is its too late for Farrah she is to old to try and change it now! Put her behind on the street and give her a dose of the real world. Sophia will be o.k. as long as she has loving gandparents who give her quality time at thier discretion. One last thing: I know I’ll get reamed for this one but as devil’s advocate I must ask Who do you see falling out in public and on t.v. (i.e. Supernanny) with temper-tantrums and hitting and fighting thier moms? I know where I come from it isn’t the black kids lol they know thier parents will whoop that a$$ right in the middle of Wal-mart and wait outside the front door for the cops!

      • Wyndie Stanley

        that is the most immature thing i have ever read on the internet. this is basically saying that if your child gets an attitude hit her and she will learn better then that. im a teen mom as it is so i have a little more understanding for Farrah and yes she did make some mistakes and she did have her priorities mixed for a time but whether or not she has an attitude with her mother is no reason to warrent attack. if your child got an attitude with you and you hit her for it then i hope you lose your child and spend time in jail for it so you understand how servere that is, its not a little oh suck it up your a big girl, its more like you are her protector and you are surposed to be her source of advise not someone she fears and cant trust. and why are you refering this to the way some black people raise their children? that is a stereotype and its a horrible one, my best friend is black and her parents have never raised a hand to her or her brothers, and she isnt exactly a model daughter. to say that Farrah should be put on the street then obviously you have never been on the street otherwise you wouldnt wish anyone there, besides where do you think the majority of her families income comes from? the fact that Farrah is famous that is why her mom wants her to stay around.

        • Elizabeth

          WOW… Farrah is far from famous. And with the mouth on her and how she disrespects her mother in her own house She she deserved to get popped in the mouth. The thing people are failing to realize is that it was a pop in the mouth. And Farrah was most likely the one to call the police on her own mother for a fricken pop in the mouth. You have got to be kidding me. that shows you right thier how selfish and stupid this LITTLE GIRL is. You think a woman who pops her disrespectful teenager should have her child taken away. How about the one who is always leaving her child to chase guys and is in so much denial that she sees nothing wrong with it and the child is always with the grandparents and rarely with the mother. Thats totally ok though right? Think before you type.

          • Wyndie Stanley

            i never said farrah was right by leaving her daughter to chase boys, in fact i really dont care for her because of that

        • Tasha

          Wyndie you hit the nail on the head “my best friend is black and her parents have never raised a hand to her or her brothers, and she ISN’T exactly a model daughter.” So like I said some kids need a good smack on the @$$! I needed my @$$ whooped sometimes and it made me a better person! You say ur a teen mom sooo how did that happen? Not enough @$$ whoopins maybe? Every child should have a healthy dose of fear of their parents, I know it kept me from spreading my legs and getting knocked up while still in highschool! My mama Would have went “Claudine” on my behind! From your comments it sounds almost as if you condone her disrepectful ways? Were you a disrepectful child? Famous??? lol Are you a Star junkie? And wth does fame have to do with anything? RIGHT IS RIGHT and WRONG IS WRONG! Thats the problem I think with many child celebreties (not that she is one lol) parents are too afraid to give them the correction they need! I’m sorry but using the F word at your mother the one who gave you life, who raised you and supported you is a little more than an “attitude” it’s detestable and I feel sorry for one of my kids if they try that BS.. but that won’t happen cuz they know the day you are grown enough to speak to me like that you are grown enough to catch the @$$ whoopin that comes next. Your a teen mom so you will God willing have a teen one day we’ll see how you feel after your teen curses you out for the first time. People haveing a baby dosen’t make you an adult! GROWN IS ON YOUR OWN!! I am in my 30’s with 3 kids of my own and not only do I not curse at my mom I don’t even curse around her! If i did she would slap me dead in my mouth! I trust her I love her and I thank her for giving me the @$$ whoopins I needed! Luv you Mommy!

          • LeftCoastMom

            Tasha Your original comment had me LOL I was raised & I raised my kids around about as much ethnic diversity as anyone can in the US; in So California. I’ve never heard that some blacks thinks we under discipline. I also never had any black friends who, IMO “over disciplined.”

            While I totally agree with your comment about Super Nanny (the lack of parenting skills or even IQ points on that show is appalling) Believing it is a “white problem” is equal to calling Paternity Test day on Maury a “black problem”.

            I also believe “Farrah is EXTREMELY rude & EXTREMELY disrespectful.” The day my kid calls 911 on me, (in my house!) is the day she better have her bags packed! Cos if she is is still there when I get home – they will be calling 911 again!!

            Wyndie: Tasha didn’t say she hits her kids, she said she would if they disrespected her. Huge difference!!

            Make copy this page and reread it in a few years. Especially if “that is the most immature thing (you) have ever read on the internet”- You have a bunch of growing up to do and I hope you do it before your kid starts talking back to you.

            ”Because she did make some mistakes and she did have her priorities mixed for a time but whether or not she has an attitude with her mother is no reason to warrent attack.”

            No one is saying ”YEAH! SHE SLAPPED A HO” What a great thing to do – we are saying Debra was pushed too far, too many times and we understand. Maybe when your kid can talk back, you’ll understand too. HONESTLY, YOU THINK FARRAH HAS HER PRIORITIES STRAIGHT? Think ahead a few years – what would you do if your kid speaks to you the way Farrah does to her parents. The lies, the rudeness, the running around. Your baby that you protected and nurtured and loved for 16 years, think about it.

            At 18 – if a kid acts as rude as Farrah, I don’t think a time out is going to help. IMO the only thing that will fix her snotty attitude and rude mouth is a good dose of reality and she is not getting it living with her parents. They have “protected her” for too long and now she takes advantage and LIES to them about everything!! Since you brought it up, they can’t “trust” her! Do you really think that Farrah “fears her mother? or takes her mothers advice?” If she did, they wouldn’t have the troubles they are having!! If anything Debra sounds like she has given up!

            The problems with Debra and Farrah aren’t new! they weren’t even new on 16 & Pregnant. Debra never learned to choose her battles, she tosses out some really weird passive – aggressive stuff – there is some weird competition between them, and both parents have unrealistic expectations. (like expecting Farrah to be celibate! – that horse left the gate, long ago.) Farrah is a spoiled little brat, if she can’t get what she is entitled to by asking, she will lie or cheat to take it. Everything is about “I’m a teenager” When she is 25, 35, 45 she will be saying I missed out when I was 18, 28, 38 so I need to have this time to myself now. That baby doesn’t stand a chance.

            • Tasha

              LMBO at “is equal to calling Paternity Test day on Maury a “black problem”. You are right on point with the rest. But I am from SOCAL too and I do know a lot of people who feel the same way I do. The prob. is that what I said is not as PC as some would like and the truth is there are some things black people dont talk about in front of white people and vice versa. When we all can talk candidly about how we feel or what we think we be able to erradicate misnomers and stereo types.

          • Wyndie Stanley

            Tasha: Im not a young teen im 20 in august and i have three years of my four year degree under my belt so its not like im sticking up for these girls and yes my mother beat the sh*t out of me when i was a kid…not meaning that to sound like child abuse but i was whooped for things i might do. so even severely punished children arent guarenteed to grow up with the best plans and ideas…o and if you dont think she is famous why are you commenting on her personal life any way?

            • Tasha

              LOL not young? 19? Really? Girl hit me up when u get off that similac! And as far as “commenting on her personal life” like I said it has nothing to do with fame Right is Right and Wrong is Wrong, famous or not. But I guess we all know why you are commenting now. I love star junkies! They always jump to the defense of people they dont know and who wouldn’t give a hoot if they disappeared off the face of the earth.

      • Dee

        girl u better say that! i would be the main one…i’m sorry but i grew up around kids gettin their butt whooped when they wanna try something…so i dont really see it as a bad thing this chick gettin a lil love tap from her mom. As long as it’s not an everyday and extremely violent thing…you gotta know your limits.

    • Pete

      Hey Wyndie,

      I can see by you being a teen mom that you must have made the best decisions in life. I’m glad my tax dollars will be supporting your bastard child. I wish someone… Your parents… would have been a little better at disciplining you.

      • Heidi

        And you know that she is on welfare how? You should really have educated yourself about this woman before you slammed her on the Internet for the world to see. If you have ever seen the show, you would see Farrah working to provide for her daughter and pay off the hospital bills. She actually shows a hospital bill in an episode. I don’t think the hospital would send a bill if the state was picking up the tab. You probably thought you were being”cool” by slamming a girl that you obviously know nothing about, but in actuality, you just sound like an idiot!

        • Elizabeth

          No in actuallity Farrah sounds like an idiot. Paying the Hospital Bill from having a baby doesn’t make her a good mother. And in that episode she said that she is paying off Sophia’s medical bill. No that is Farrah’s medical Bill. Farrah has no idea about the actual strugles of being a teen mom. The other girls, they struggled to give thier kids a good life. They were with thier children d**n near every scene of the show. Farrah was in Farrah land the entire time.

    • NE girl

      Umm so I’m a teen with an attitude and I cannot believe how Farrah can tell her mom that she doesn’t do anything Farrah has gotten better but while she was out scamming another baby daddy, her mom was being the parent to her granddaughter.Farrah is extremely disrespectful to a woman that has given her everything. Deb should not be have been arrested.if my daughter mouthed off like that after she had been irresponsible,I would smack her across the face too. To all of you that think “spanking” and such is wrong then get off your self rightous pedestal and understand that there is a huge difference between beating your child and disiplining them.I’m sorry that people that don’t understand the difference,blurred the line between the two for the rest of you

    • KT

      This is BS.

      I haven’t even seen the episode yet, but I’m almost CERTAIN he’s not talking about that. He’s referring to when they were going car shopping and her mom hit Farrah in the car.

    • Heather

      Pete,

      You are a judgemental moron. My mother was a teen when she had me, and her and my father worked their a$$es off to provide for me. I had an excellent childhood, graduated college with a bachelors degree, and just recently married. My life is great and I couldn’t have asked for better parents. I definitely don’t condone teen pregnancy, but don’t you dare make it seem like those who are in that situation must be deadbeats that were raised poorly.

      I wish someone…..your parents…..would have taught you manners!

      • Elizabeth

        I do agree with you. Being a teen mother doesn’t always end up horribly. I think the other girls on this show showed nothing but maturity, responsibility, and have thier priorities in order. This Farrah chick on the other hand. She is the type of teen mother that gives all teen mothers a bad name.

      • Dani

        Well Heather,if the show fits where it. No one is bad mouthing teen moms.All that education,your understanding is bad. Elizabeth only said that teen moms need to take responsability for their own.Farrah is a snobby b**ch.

    • Elizabeth

      My Personal Opinion….. Farrah is a complete DUMP TRUCK. Even after watching scenes of her self ALWAYS going out and leaving her daughter she still has the nerver to sit there and say that she doesn’t always leave her. (Denial is a horrible thing) In watching this season the other girls really held down thier positions as mothers. They worked thier a$$es off in work and school. While Farrah was wondering where she was going to go and what she was going to wear and who she was going out with that night the other girls were catching up on sleep from the exhausting day they had trying to squeeze studying in with chasing after a toddler. The only priority the other girls had was thier child. From what I can see Farrah is a spoiled rotten, SELFISH, idiot. She always says I am a teenager too…. No No No little girl you gave all that up the moment you decided to have a baby. I had a baby at the age of 16 I had to work and finish school. I never even had a free moment to even think about having a social life. You want to be treated like an adult you need to act like one and you most definately do not act like an adult. I actually cringe when your scenes of the show come on. You should be ashamed the way you talk to your mother. Whether you agree with what she says or wants doesn’t matter. Just because you have a baby doesn’t make you grown. You act as if you are entitled to speak and act how you want. You still live under her roof, eat her food, she takes care of your baby. If she agrees to watch your baby for you, you should appreciate that, if she says you can only be gone for 2-4 hours that is what it is. Even if she says be back in one hour you do it. She is your MOTHER not your Live in Nanny. Put your daughter above any and everything else. STOP CHASING AFTER GUYS. You will only end up with another child that you don’t take care of. As far as her mother hitting her… Shoooooot Just watching the show makes me want to B**ch Slap her ass through the television. She probably got smart with her mom once again and she popped her dumb a$$ in the mouth. And Farrah’s dumb a$$ probably called the police on her own mother. GROW THE HELL UP>

    • tiffany

      I think its so easy for everyone to just say farrah is wrong, yes I agree she has a lot of growing up to do she’s 18 and yes she has a kid and yes she did go out, its called growing and accepting change, I think everyone forgot that she does have a job she does go to school and towards the end of the season she DID change her ways. We only see half of what she went through and we all say the others do so well..amber didn’t work at first or go to school just b**ched and no 1 jumps on her. Maci I do believe is the one the most focused but even she put school on hold and had no job farrah really is the only one that is doing this with out the help of a baby dad and being a teenager she made mistakes we all do but stop always pointing out what she has done and look at the changes she has made. I think she has done a remarkable turn around and has grown alot

      • jenn

        I agree with you Tiffany. I was also a teen mother at the age of 16, I went to a school for teen moms in denver. That did help a little bit but it was not so easy to just give up everything i had… Farrah, she does what she need to do in the day time and I feel that if she has someone to watch her child while she sleeps why not make time for herself… I know to many mothers that just let themselfs go and put everthing off for their children.. Yes we as mothers love our children above anything else but we do need time for ourselves as well…. We only see what they had on tv that dont mean that she went out everyday…. And no one talks about the fact that she just lost her babys dad in an accident she will never see him again and he will never see his child. She is just out there trying to find a good father for her son and what she does need to know is that she will find someone she is a beautiful and intellagent woman. That can do anything she puts her mind to.

      • Dani

        Yea, Maci did have a job working with her dad’s company and she only put school on hold because she knew that it would be hard right now because she had a deadbeat a$$ babydaddy.So how do you figure Farrah was the only one wiyh no help.Having Ryan was like not having anyone at all.Maci knew that her baby came first.And as foe Amber,yes che did b*tch a lot and she didn’t have a job at first,bet she didn’tlive with her mom and disrespect her.She only b*tched a lot because she demanded her man be there not only finacially but physically foe their child.She was trying to better ferself also by trying to get her GED but Gary’s a$$ didn’t want her to go to school or work. He was afraid if she did all these things to better herself, Amber would leave him. So she had a legit reason to b*tch most of the time.So quite trying to justify for Farrah’s ungrateful,disrespectful a$$.

    • Mindy

      Wow! I can’t believe that anyone thinks its okay to hit another person. That doesn’t solve anything. I don’t care if you ARE the parent of a talkback teen. Her mother should’ve taken the highroad. Farrah’s behavior is so classic pysch.101. I work in health care and get to see loads of different personalities day in and out. I can’t say that I would love to listen to that all day, but I doubt any of us see the REAL Farrah just the stuff that made the reel. Honestly, I don’t love that she seems to not quite have her priorities straight, but she is trying WITHOUT the other half of this equation.

    • lisa

      I have been dying to comment on this ungrateful b!tch. I understand she is a teenager and needs time out but how about the disrepect she dishes out to her parents. Calling her father by his first name and completely disregarding them asking what time she plans on being home…no respect and a foul mouth ungreatful b!tch. Put her in a shelter with her kid and no babysitter and see how she makes out with out them!!!

      • judyr

        I agree with you. Farrah is so rude that she is ugly to me. I do not understand why she thinks she is so great. That mouth is so foul and ungrateful. Let her live on her own without help and see how life really is. I can see why her mother has had it with her. I would have smaked her out of frustration a long time before this.

        • misty coffey

          SO, HA HA HA, HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN JEALOUS OF HER? YOU MUST HAVE A CHILD OF YOUR OWN AND YOUR PROBALLY OVERWEIGHT AND HAVE ACNE AND YOU CAN ONLY WISH TO BE HALF THE MOM FARRAH IS….

    • Hillary

      Can Farrah be rude, disrespectful and unappreciative at times, I would say yes but although a mother she is still a teen and is trying to find balance in her life. She is still growing up. However, her MOM is an adult and had NO RIGHT to get physical with her daughter. Farrah might be mouthy, but that is a teen for ya! Her mom has a beautiful daughter and grandbaby, yes times are hard but that gives her no right to hurt Farrah physically. And God forbid she takes a hand to Sophia next! Debra: Get Counsling with Farrah to deal with family stress and childcare issues… maybe try Xanax.

      • Rachel

        I think everyone being so negative needs to realize that TV only puts what they want to on air…a lot is hidden. She may be a lot better of a mom than we see her to be, because MTV wanted to make a point and unfortunately used her. out of all the time they record, they have to break it down to a small number of episodes, so we miss a lot of important details. So stop being so judgmental and just leave her alone.

        • Dani

          Yes,tv does leave out a lot but just think, all the episodes show how disrespectful she was to her mom and neglected her daughter. So why wouldn’t they leave some of that out? Everyone needs to quit being so easy on Farrah and stop feeling sorry for her, the s*it she goes through is her own fault. Don’t you think if she was a little more respectful and just keep her mouth closed sometimes, her mom wouldn’t have to say anything.Yall all are bumping your gums about “they are only 16 and they need time to grow.Well why not be quiet and listen to your parents who knows about life,who raised kids and have careers instead of always going off at the mouth like they know everything.Growing means listening and learning.The time to grow is “NOW” they are moms now so they have to forget about friends,partying,and dates and deal with what’s real. “BEING A DAM MOM,A WOMAN.

        • misty coffey

          THIS IS THE FIRST COMMENT I AGREE WITH GIVE THE GIRL A CHANCE TO BE A WOMAN FARRAHS MOM NEEDS HELP WITH ANXIETY DEPRESSION AND ISSUES WITH CONTROL

    • Raven

      How is slapping her being an overbearing mother? She deserved that! If she had a few more slaps like that growing up, she wouldn’t be in her predicament, now would she?!

      • misty coffey

        WHAT COLORED ROSE GLASSES ARE YOU LOOKING FROM ALL WE GET TO SEE IS THE BITS AND PIECES THEY SHOW AND FROM WHAT I SEE YES FARRAH MADE SOME DECISIONS HER MOM DID NOT UNDERSTAND OR APPROVE OF BUT SHEH IS A TEENAGER AND JUST BECAUSE SHE SPIT OUT A KID DOESN’T MAKE HER AN ADULT AND HOW FARRAH ACTS IS NOT SOMETHING CAME ABOUT AS AN EFFECT OF HAVING A KID SHE WAS ALLOWED TO BE THAT WAY ALL HER LIFE AND NOW HER MOM WANTS TO PUT HER FOOT DOWN AND ACT LIKE THIS IS ALL NEW FOR HER TO DEAL WITH FARRAHS MOM NEEDS A CRASH COURSE ON BEING A REAL MOM

    • Dani

      I wish Farrah was my daughter and she called the police on me. When I did get out of jail I would kick her a self-centered a$$ out of my house after I kicked her a$$ again and showed that bi**h some tough love.Since she is bold enough to do that, she will be bold enough to take care of herself and her baby. Sorry for seeming so rude but that tramp needs to be taught the real meaning of a woman.I’d show that lil wh**e the door.

      • misty coffey

        WELL I AM GLAD I AM NOT YOU YOU ARE A STUPID PERSON IF YOU CAN;T SEE BEHIND FARRAHS MOMS FASAD YOU DON’T DESERVE TO JUDGE FARRAH I WISH SHE WAS MY SISTER SHE MIGHT NOT HAVE LIVED IN A BIG AND BEAUTIFUL HOUSE BUT LET ME TELL YOU TRU LOVE IS BETTER THAN ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY IN THE WORLD. I HAD MY DAUGHTER AT 17 AND MY PARENTS WERE NOT THRILLED ABOUT IT AND AND ASKED MY TO ABORT HER BUT I COULDN’T. THAT WAS MY DECISION, I DON’T REGRET IT MY FAMILY AND I DON’T ALWAYS SEE THINGS IN THE SAME LIGHT, BUT MY FOLKS WOULD NEVER EVER MAKE ME FEEL LIKE FARRAHS MOM MADE HER FEEL… MY PARENTS DID EVERYTHING I MEAN EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO KEEP ME SAFE OFF DRUGS AND NOT END UP PREGNANT. BUT LOW AND BEHOLD I GOT PREGNANT. MY CHOICES WERE NOT THE BEST AT FIRST BECAUSE I FELT LIKE I BETTER LIVE IT UP NOW AND I NEED TO FIND A MAN TO BE WITH BECAUSE I FELLT IF I DID NOT FIND A MAND THAT WANTED ME THEN I NEVER WOULD.. FARRAH I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU COULD HAVE BEEN FEELING THAT IS NOT SELFISH IT IS LIFE,,,,, WHO WANTS TO BE ALONE,,, NOT MANY PEOPLE … LOOK AT MACI GOD LOVE HER BUT HOW MUCH CRAP SHOULD YOU TAKE FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILD,,, TO ME THAT WAS INSANE AND CRAZY AND I DON’T BELIEVE FOR A MINUTE IT WAS FOR BENTELY BECAUSE HER HEART WAS JUST STUCK ON STUPID… FARRAH YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON EVEN THOUGH I DON’T KNOW YOU I GOT YOUR BACK IF YOU EVER NEEED IT

        • Dani

          No sweety,I am far from stupid. You are just as silly as some of these other ppl who feel sorry for Farrah. He mom has her best intrest like I said 100 times. Yes everyone want someone,but dam she is acting so desperate,just let it happen when it happens. You can’t force a relationship. All I an saying is instead of her concentrating so much in finding a man and acceptance from friends,put some of that effort in being a mom. She had the baby now deal with it. And nobody wants to hear that bulls**t about her babydaddy is dead and she has no help. Don’t get me wrong,I sympathize with her about losing him,but life has to go on.You know how many single have to raise their kids without a man weather it be due to his death,incarceration,or abandonment.We as women have to carry on because if we stop then who’s gonna raise the kid. So now is the time for Farrah to step up,stop depending on mom,and appreciate the fact that she has a mom to help her with her baby cause surely if she was totally on her own she would be struggling,wishing for some help and support from mom.

    • http://16anpregnant justina

      its not cool to hit ur kids i love my lil girl an lil boy i have twins 9 months old if my mom would hit me an make my kids cry id hit her back its not a good thing to hit ur kids so its messed up wat she did to farrah even though farrah is a loud mouth but i dnt mind i am too an im 18 so farrah move out find ur own place u know u can do it on ur own i am an its pretty easy after a few months!!

    • tirah

      i always thought people who hit their children were trailer trash or really strict Asians. yeah they are stereotypes and it’s stupid, but not as stupid how you think it’s alright or acceptable for parents to raise a hand to their kids in order to “discipline” them. if you have to resort to hitting your kids, then maybe the problem is you for not being a good parent in the first place. for not know how to communicate with your children and for not knowing how to raise them. next time when you feel the need to hit your child why dont you reverse it and slug yourself in the face instead. no child regardless of their age should get hit. that’s called violence and it IS abusive. i believe in spanking your kids when they’re “bad”, but there’s an age limit on that. i don’t think hitting your kids after the age of 5 is good for your relationship. and yes i DO judge parents who smack their kids, because you’re actually frustrated at yourself for your sub par parenting but you take it out on them instead! there’s more to it than “oh im going to whoop my kid’s a$$ to discipline them so they can grow up to be outstanding people”. no, because they will grow up to beat their kids just like YOU did and theyre going to become horrible parents just like YOU.

      • Kim

        To begin with, first you say don’t hit your kids and then say it’s ok before age 5? WTF?! Apparently you’re not a parent. Little kids don’t understand why you’re hitting them. A good parent nurtures and teaches their children when they are small. On the other hand, teenagers are a whole other story. Being a teenage parent myself I can relate to these girls. I have been with my husband since I was 15 yrs. old. We have 3 great kids together and my oldest child is now almost 15 so not only can I relate to the teenage mothers, but also the role of the parent of a teenager. Being a teen is hard enough, but realizing that it’s your job to mold these children into what type of person they will be is tough. I never had to “beat” my kids but I’ve always been very strict and never give an inch. I love how people judge these girls and have an answer to all their parenting mistakes. Babies don’t come with a manual and THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT PARENT! Basically we all make mistakes and as long as you grow and learn from them that’s what makes you the better person. Judging someone by what you see on a show doesn’t make you better than them just a fool for thinking everything you see is real! That’s what’s wrong with the world is thinking you have the right to judge someone for their downfalls. Until you walk a day in someone’s shoes you have no right. Kids today think they can get away with everything and call the police to get their way. I say teach the little kids and do what it takes to make these teens understand there is consequence for all actions. If you teach your children respect – which most of these back talking brats today don’t have – we wouldn’t have the problems we have in society. I constantly get compliments on how well behaved and well mannered my kids are and I am not a perfect parent. I’m human. All I say is don’t judge people for their mistakes and trying to make a documentary to help other teens from making the same mistakes, learn some empathy!

      • bill

        All i gotta say to the op, is that pain is an amazing reminder, ya no how bark collars work. You think after someone talks crap and gets beat up most the time they stop talking cuz they remember the pain. My parents would always tell me stories about things they did and then they got whooped and then they never did it again. Some children are not disciplined by simple words, some need reminders be it pain or a reward for good behavior. Your simplistic view is a nice one for a better world and a perfect world. Kids are not perfect and neither are words.

    • rosie

      Ok I wanted to comment on farrah for a long time I think yeah she is a teen but you grow up with morals and a person knows when something is wrong and something is right and she really doesn’t appreciate what her parents have done for her and her baby. Really she doesn’t even have to worry about where to live, rent and who takes care of her baby. I mean she is 16 and pregnant and her parents are there for her what more can she want. I was 15 and not pregnant straight A student and I knew I had to make my own way and not expect nothing from my parents I have been paying my way since I was 15 I haven’t really had time to worry about dating or if I will ever have time to find the one you know why because I have life real life to deal with it doesn’t leave me any time to worry about a date and I’m only 21

      • Dani

        Well you raise your kids how you want to if you even have any. If you knew the bible you would know that it’s not a sin to dicipline your kids.No one is saying to beat her with a freakin bat or 2×4,but a brisk slap across the lips will make her azz know next time to think before she speaks like that to her mom. That’s far from abuse. That’t why some kids wind-up whipping their parents azz.they know they can get away with it.And you got to be kidding you think 15 is too old to get slapped? That is the most crucial time, when teens go to smelling themselves thinking they are grown. No honey wake up ,maybe you need a quisk slap.LOL

        • misty coffey

          all i have to say is yes there are certain things in life where you need to physically discipline your kids but farrahs mom is an out of control , control freak a$$ b!tch.. i would love to sit one on one with farrahs mom fisrt and then jsut be abel to talk to farrah herself…. she has a bad rap on the show as a direspectful party mom.. you have not lived her life you have not sucked her moms sh!t down all your life and her mom and dad are equally responsible for her being spoiled ” IF YOU DON’T WANT YOUR MILK TO SPOIL, PUT IT IN THE FRIDGE ” IF YOU DON’T WANT TO HAVE A SPOILED CHILD, NEVER START THE HABBIT OF SPOILING THEM…. TO ME FARRAH HAS COME FUTHER THAN ANY OF THESE OTHER GIRLS ON THE SHOW AND WITH A DEAD BABY’S DADDY SHE STILL PUSHES ON… HER MOM IS NUTS AND I MEAN NO DISRESPECT… BUT WHEN YOUR KID IS NO LONGER 2 OR 13 IT IS HARD FOR THEM TO RESPECT YOU WHEN ALL YOU DO IS PUT THEM DOWN ON THE DAILY…..

    • Cas

      Farah and her mother deserve one another. They are both selfish, controlf freaks. The apple did not fall far from the tree. On a positive note they do both appear to love Sophia.I hope someone steps in and teaches these ladies how to have positive relationships or Sophia will most likely turn out the same way. Also they both think they are God’s gift to the universe and it gets on my last nerve. Some humility would help them out greatly. On a side note, it is never okay to hit a child. Hitting a small child is being a bully. I grew up in that situation and it caused me great harm. You don’t have to hit a person to get your point across, or even raise your voice for that matter. There are better ways of doing things. If you want to hit an adult you should walk away. There is no excuse for battery, family or not. One day the mother will be old and frail. Does she want Farah to hit her in that situation?

      • kelly

        Do you think its okay to talk to your mother that way over and over again? I’m a teen and even i have more respect for my mother than that…i hope your child treats you like that.

    • jam…

      I WOULD LIKE TOO SAY FARRAH MOM SHOULD OF SLAP HER A$$ A LONG TIME AGO..I WAS A TEEN MOM AND I WISH I WOULD WAALK OUT THA HOUSE WITHOUT THT BABY…FARRAH DONT KNO HOW GOOD SHE HAD IT.IF I WAS HER MOM AFTER THIS, I WOULD SHOW FARRAH HOW MUCH SHE REALLY DO ND ME..AND ANOTHER THING EVERYONE TLKIN ABOU HOW MUCH HER MOTHERS IS A CONTROL FREAK BUT IF U HAD FARRAH AS A DAUGHTER WAT WOULD U DO?????

    • http://teenmom violet

      Farrah is a very beautiful young girl. now that she just had a beautiful baby girl she is very health and i think Farrah is a good mom to her daughter sophia

    • Jori

      Farrah is not the perfect mother but her mothers is way worse then her. you can tell she has issues and is on something. Farrah my advice to you is run get out of there. Or its going to turn into sophia getting beat too!!!

    • hkjd.hf

      her mom is a meany. but farah is a brat for talking that way to her mom. that is not ok

    • mechelle

      This young woman desperately needs to financial ability to live on her own, she has shown herself to be responsible for her child, perfect no, but there is no such thing as a perfect parent.

      • Sindy

        responsible? how come the other teen moms dedicate more time to their children and aren’t as neglegting and they are all around the same age. When I saw this past episode I flipped to see how she leaves a one year old baby in a sink without supervision that little girl could have tried to stand and could have fall and that could have been something serious. I have a child of my own and I never take my eyes off him. Children can’t be left alone. As a mother, your child is before any friends and specially any dude.

        • Yvette

          OMG I was thinking the same thing. I have a 2 year old and I would never leave her in the sink alone. I could not believe that!!

        • EastCoastKat

          I AGREE ONE HUNDRED PERCENT, the baby could have fell out, she turned the hot water on and could have been scalded! In the last 2 episodes I have seen a few things, the baby slammed her fingers in a cabinet door, Farrah didn’t see it, she picks the baby up doesn’t check out why she is crying but gets a bottle sits down on the couch and says the baby hates her, then stuffs a bottle in her mouth. She left her in the hallway by herself way toooo long when she was moving in, then when the baby cried in the sink when she put her hand in the HOT WATER, Farrah asked the baby if the water was too hot, turns it off and walks away again! SHE REALLY NEEDS TO BE MORE VIGILANT WITH THAT LITTLE GIRL, OR SHE IS IN FOR A RUDE AWAKENING, FOR SURE!

    • Moniqua

      I would have have slapped Farrah a long time before then. She’s an ingrate, and totally out of control. Her mother was probably at her wit’s end dealing with this girl. The way she talks to her mother is unnacceptable and abusive. I am not suprised that Mom finally snapped with dealing with such a selfish, manipulative, stupid little girl.

    • bill

      You both have to be kidding me, Farrah is an absolutely terrible parent. In the first episode she left her child crying on the ground and yelling at it granted its a tough situation but not a responsible parent. Also cutting off her parents, the ones who show to be financially successful? Yeah real smart, she thinks shes a genius parent and a genius person but shes just a winy teenager that thinks she knows everything. There has been no growth in her through the first season and this one. Very immature, she has a job and now an apartment good, shutting her parents out and still more concerned with her social life than her child bad. Not a good parent at all, the mom may be mean but she is right to criticize farrah at every turn.

    • Sam

      Farrah is a very self absorbed spoiled child, not mother, mothers put their kids needs in front of their own. Who leaves a BABY outside the door to their apartment while they go put stuff away, anything could have happened someone could have taken her. A mother would have taken the child in first and left the other things sitting outside the door for people to take since those items can be replaced. I feel she needs more than a slap in the face to adjust her attitude. She’s had over a year now to adjust her mentality from teenaer to mother(from the time she found out she was pregnant til now) and hasn’t. I think what would be in the best interest of baby Sophia to spend more time with grandma and grandpa, I would hate to see the level of neglect to Sophia when she knows the cameras aren’t there. I could only assume that like everyone else that she wouldn’t be as bad as she normally would to not look bad on tv, the sad thing is, her best behavior is still making her look like a horrible mother. She’s probably only working cuz her parents won’t support her as much hoping to get her to see how hard it is, I don’t think that she made the decision so that she could care for her child better everything she does is strictly with HERSELF in mind.

      • LIZ

        no kidding! she leaves the kid in the hallway at the front door all alone? in the SINK all alone and she gets scalded????????
        did u see how mad Farrah got when MOM DID NOT MOVE IN THE GUESTHOUSE HERSELF???? Farrah though SHE was gonna stay in the big house!

    • Breanna

      this is ridiculous. farrah does act bad toward her mom. but, her mom doesn’t ahve the right to punch farrah in the face?

    • polina

      poor kid

    • Kc

      Why hasn’t someone called social services on Farrah yet? It blows my mind.

      • sandy warren

        it doesn’t do any good to report child abuse or neglect because it has been reported more than once about my two grandsons, which the oldest one wants to commit suicide if he has to go on living with his stepmom, but the hotline people don’t care or they would have put them back where they want to be. the father is never at home, he works in another state and is only home one weekend a month maybe and they whip the boys with a board which in MO. you are supposed to use your hand and NOT leave marks. SO like i said, it doesn’t do any good to hotline it cause nothing is done.

        • jules mitch

          Things might be that way in the usa but im from the uk and its not acceptable to hit your kid under any circumstance ! Reporting doesnt always work but it does in alot of cases and what would be your alternative, turn a blind eye? try sort the situation yourself and risk causing more damage? These kids need help and the correct way to get it to them is for the proper people to intervine. Farrah does put her daughter in danger, maybe she needs help rather than punishment, in the uk we have parenting classes, some people dont have enough common sense to think before they act.

    • Brandon

      I kinda feel bad for Farrah after all her babys dad did die so that would be very hard. I dont think Farrah’s mother had the right to hit her, but i really wouldnt cut them out of the babys life. And i wouldnt have left the baby in the sink but a camera man or woman was watching her in the hallway too. so lay off

      • sura

        I’m glad Farrah’s getting therapy. She seems to have so many issues that she needs help with. She has so much unresolved grief and lack of closure from her baby daddy’s death. She struggles to be acknowledged by her parents and is in a power struggle with her baby in the middle used as a pawn. She’s in as much denial as her mother, except they’re on opposite sides. Her baby’s 1st birthday was spent on what Farrah herself would like, instead of what a 1 yr. old child would like. If she continues on this path, in the future, what will her relationship be like with Sophia? I think she really loves her baby and wants to break the cycle and be the kind of mother that she would have wanted. She really wants to break out of all the old family patterns/relationships and that’s what is causing so much resistance. I hope she finds a healthy way to do it.

        • Diana

          I agree with you. Let’s hope that by being on a reality show she can develop the proper skills she needs to make the changes she wants in a more constructive way and with results. Meanwhile it is upsetting to watch Sophia have to sit by helplessly and hear all of the yelling, screaming & fighting between her grandmother and mother. This is a very unhealthy & stressful living arangement for a child to be in. Do not forget Sophia’s father’s relatives are probably watching the show -and they must be affected from what they see. I would not want my grand child to have to endure all of this stress -especially when her father is unable to look after her because he is deceased -the behavior on the TV show is excellent evidence in a court proceeding (visitation & custody issues). This family needs to be careful and seek out to accept help to improve the situation -it is not about them anymore -it is about a little angel called Sophia -no one else matters anymore! It is time for this family to accept things, move on and grow up!

      • Jasmine

        Last time I checked, it wasn’t the camera man’s job to watch her child. Afterall, they did just stand by and watch as Sophia fell head first off the bed. You can’t really use the excuse that there was a camera man watching because, as camera men, they’re not supposed to interfere, so theyre pretty crappy babysitters don’t you think?

    • Lorena

      Man I really do feel sorry for Sophia. Not only because she has a teen mom but the fact that she has to keep up with her childish and immature minded mother and has to wait for her to actually GROW UP! Yeah having the issue that Sophia’s dad is now dead but should not effect her by always being so bad towards her parents. Farrah had blocked him out of her life anyway. She should appreciate life by having parents that were so good to her but just because Farrah and her mom argue about child issues and Farrah doesn’t get what she wants, she is so abusive and gets out of control towards her mom. Gladly she is getting therapy and I wish her all the luck she can get to get help.

    • Melissa

      the both need counseling, TOGETHER.

      I feel bad for both Farrah and her mother. Farrah is dealing with mistakes she made like any teenager and her mother is not supportive in any way, If my mother found out I was pregnant she would be pissed. But then she would be supportive in getting on the right track. Not hit me. Seriously, NO excuse for that. Spanking a child is VERY different than hitting a teen.
      Her mother obviously doesn’t know how to deal with issues, and tends to pretend they don’t happen. They need to learn to work through arguments together.

      • Brigit

        I am saddened to see these young girls in the situation that they are in!! Ok I feel that Farrah is very ignorant and disrespectful towards here parents!! Remember we are not able to view everything that goes on in their lives only a limited edition. She is unable to financially and mentally be the mother that she needs to be towards Sophia. The situation between her and her mother is very difficult to speak about. From what I see on the show her mom should have slapped her along time ago because I would never disrespect my parents like she does. Her parents love her and would do anything for her and that baby and it is sad that she runs over her mom like she does. I pray for peace because it is not Sophias or her parents fault about the situation that Farrah is in it is HERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      • Angel Overfelt

        That is sad that her mother did that if i had a child i could not hit her. My mother has never hit me and im so thankful for that.

    • jamie

      i swear the way this chick talks to her mom i would slap her 5 times a day. bugs me watching her segments cuz she’s a complete bitch

    • S.I

      Ok so ferrah might not be perfect but I totally look up to her! She is doing her thing yeah she makes mistakes here and there but poor girl has been through so much!!!! You people need to stop critiZing her seriously!!!!! If she’s the way she is it’s because of her parents & what she’s been through!!! & I have to say her mom is a BITCH seriously!!! She sk uptight and acts like nothing is wrong & sooooooo fake!!!

    • Mimmie

      Farrah is a unfit mom. Where is child services when there really is a problem!! I just saw the episode where she left Sophia on the bed alone while she was on the phone and Sophia fell off the bed. What is this poor teenager thinking. She really needs a parenting class along with therapy

      • cherry

        You’re an Idiot!!

      • Jessica

        Do you have children? And if you do, who made you the authority on raising children? This is the problem, no one is a perfect parent but yet it’s people like you who think they’re one to judge when clearly you’re not. Yes, things happen. I’m sure you’ve gotten many bumps and bruises in your life… ITS PART OF LIFE. The kid is doing the best she can, no one is perfect. And petty and non issue reports to child services stop the social workers from taking care of REAL cases of abuse and neglect. Get off your high horse and worry about your own damn life!

    • Haley

      ARE YOU GUYS KIDDING ME! FARRAH AND HER BABY LOST THE DADDY, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE! SHE IS DOING THE BEST THAT SHE CAN. FARRAH, I THINK YOU ARE DOING AN AWESOME JOB!! SCREW WHAT THESE LOSERS ARE SAYING!

      • Brigit

        Omg!!

      • Kelli

        EVERY first mother learns as she goes! There is no manual, it is a learning process. She is just a young mother, she needs to take some parenting classes. She is NOT a bad mother, she just needs some direction. My only issue with Farrah is her SERIOUS disrespect to her parents. I realize that they are not perfect parents but she is making it harder on herself, her baby, and her parents with her AWFUL attitude. She makes herself look like a stuck up, snotty, spoiled brat when she is around her mom and/or dad. Other than that she is my fav on this show. She is very head strong and focused.

    • Lizelove

      Farrah,

      I don’t blame your mother slapping you or whatever she did to you. You show your parents such disrepect. Growing up in my days it was ok for parents to keep their children in check by repremanding them. I think your mother made the mistake by not doing it earlier in your life. I’m sure your mother is completely humiliated by your actions and especially with the way you treat her on camera, you act like a complete brat!!! Always rolling your eyes and having a pissy attitude and making childish comments about them because you think you are to good to take any direction from them. Your mother offers you childcare and a place to live and you don’t see that you are lucky to have parents that care for you and your baby. You will have a real reality check when your baby is about your age now and she treats you the way you treat your mother. There will be a point in time when you look back and regret all that you have done because your daughter will treat you with the same sassy attitude. If you don’t change your ways your daughter will MIRROR you!! You really need to take a look at your shows and analyze your attitude because you look very rediculous and a disgrace to your family!!!

    • sandy warren

      Farrah needs to grow up and quit rolling those bug eyes all the time. She didn’t even act like a mother when her baby was first born, wanting to go out every night while grandma watched Sophia. And yes she is neglectful a lot of the time like when she is on the phone. I can’t even imagine being disrespectful to my parents, but then it seems a lot of kids now days are very disrespectful towards their parents. I think parents need to start at an early age teaching their children respect, but not by hitting them. That just teaches a child that it is ok to hit when you are mad.

    • Cass

      I think Farrah is SLOWLY learning and starting to get a grasp of the reality of being a mom, is there room for improvement, sure. There is for me as well being a mom to a 2yr old baby girl myself, I still have a lot to learn and improve on. I am very thankful for all the help and support my family has given me, but Farrah doesn’t really have that and for not having that help and support, I think she’s doing a great job all things considered. Could she be more watchful, yes. I think it would be beneficial for her to get more sitting activities for her baby, like coloring books or something. When I need to study, I put on a movie my daughter likes and give her a coloring book, some juice, and maybe some crackers, and I get some studying done and still keep an eye on her. I did make the same mistake of trying to go out a lot when I first became a mommy, but I realized how much I was missing out on with my daughter and turned that around. I have now found a better balance between my daughter, my boyfriend (who is not her bio-daddy), work, school, and still fit in a LITTLE bit of time for myself. It’s not easy and it took time and effort to figure out and I think Farrah can figure it out too. I wish you luck Farrah. It’s not easy being a mom in any situation, but just try to surround yourself with better people who can support you properly when needed and keep you motivated. Good luck hun.

    • Sophia Anderson

      i think Farrah is doing a great job, when Sophia was born she was obviously stressed out and wanted to get out of the house. She is a teenager, and she is behaving like a teenager. But now as she’s been a mum for a while, I think she is doing quite well raising Sophia.

    • Alisha Davidson

      I agree with Sophia Anderson. Farrah is a good mum, and she is learning the steps of being a mum everyday.

    • Sophia Anderson

      Farrah is a learning mum, sure she’s made mistakes, but ever since she stopped going out with her friends often,shes gained skills and learned by her mistakes. She loves Sophia to peaces, so I think Farrah is a great learning mum.

    • Lauren- Sapphire

      i agree with Sophia, Farrah Iis a learning mother and is gaining skills. And its terrible of some of you slagging Farrah off.

      • Ella

        Farragh is a georgous girl and georgous person. She is also very smart and very genuine. She is dealing with motherhood and been young impecible well. Her mother is the one with some sort of problem and she needs to lay off her. Its really sad to see a mother be so mean to a lovely young, good natured girl who is doing her best. I f she keeps doing that to her she is going to pusg her away or even cause her emotional stress. My mam was the exact same to be and it actually caused me depression. I too was a happy outgoing young girl not doing anything wrong and my mam just had a problem with EVERYTHING and would not leave me a lone. I hate her now and want nothing to do with her. Mothers seem to think they no it all and they do not!!!!!

        • Hannah

          LOL. That was ridiculous. PLEASE tell me that was a joke.

    • http://aol.com nicolette

      Frankly I’m shocked over Farrah’s mother, What kind of a mother would charge her daughter late fees if the rent is late, and what kind of a mother would make her sign a lease agreement. I have my 20 yr old granddaughter living with me and I would never ask her for 1 penny to live here. She is family and family takes care of each other. Shame on you mother.

      • Sue

        Dear Nicoette,

        I just posted a comment about Farrah’s mom before I read your post about how cruel she is towards Farrarh, but you struck am important note here because you are right, what mother would put their child through the prcoedures of renting a romm and prorating and everything that you would do with a stranger? She is her own flesh and blood and Debra treats Farrah as though they are business associates and has no emotional loving feelings for her daughter. I have an 18 year old daughter and would never ever allow myself to become like Debra. Debra is abusing Farrah, not just physically but on an emotional level as well. Farrah needs to keep away from her mother. She is cruel.

        • Carrie

          Did anyone see how Farrah was acting though? The reason her mom pulled out all of the paper work was because Farrah wanted her mom to sign a contract about respecting her privacy. I have never asked my mom to sign a contract. I think that Farrah acts like a spoiled brat sometimes and her mother reacts to it. Sure, she could probably react a little bit differently, I don’t think that throwing the same crap back at Farrah is going to get them anywhere really but at the same time Farrah needs to grow up. In the real world we don’t get anything for free. If she didn’t want to have to sign a lease with her mom than she shouldn’t have brought up contracts and started being a butt about all of the work that needed to be done in the house. She was moving in early because she didn’t like where she was. These are things that as a mother she needs to think about. At some point her mom is going to have to cut the cord and treat her like an adult. They are going to have to figure that out on their own…but Farrah is definitely going to have to start showing her mother some respect. Her mom could have told her no she couldn’t stay in the house. Instead she offered it to her with a low rent. I think she was being fare. The contracts were both of them being smart-asses thought.

    • Sue

      I thing Farrah is a great kid and has gone through and awful lot at her young age. She has a young baby and her boyfriend was killed in an accident but her mother needs to have some compassion. Debra shows absolutely no compassion or love and is a sarcastic rude (you know what) to Farrah. If I ever had a mom like Debra and was treated like that I would never have a kid. Debra just thinks she rules the world and Farrah is way way beaneath her level. How old is this woman to be acting like a child. Farrah is light years ahead of her mother and needs to get away from her. Debra seems like she would be abusive again just by listening to her. Once an abuser awalys an abuser and she tryely upsets and scares me.

    • Carrie

      Her mom NEVER should have put hands on Farrah. You just don’t do that to your kids. She should have been the adult and showed some self control.

    • someone

      i was pregnat when my bf was shot and killed. i was only 5 months prego he knew but i didnt belive i was. until after he was killed on this year.

    • nikki

      ok you shouldnt feel bad because she has a teen mom i have all 4 of my kids before i was 19 the first at 13 and i am a damn good mom all of my kids are honor roll and good kids being a teen mom is not always a bad thing the parents of the teens mom can determine how a girl takes care of her kids my mom wasnt around and i had to stand up and i did it and did it well

    • Melinda

      Farrah is a nasty snotty bitch to her mother, and her mother looks like she doing the best she can to just deal with her selfish ass daughter. I really cant believe how she talks to her mother, I give her mother a thumbs up for slapping the shit out of her.

    • Vanduri Milani

      Okay there is a difference between “hitting” and “spanking” your children… i beleive in giving spankings, but hitting until your child has a black eye or cuts is just plain abuse… a little tap on the diaper shows the child that “mommy means boss and buissness” and that i dont play around, tell me why out of all my friends my child is 2 almost 3 and says her please and thank you’s, yes sir no sir, yes ma’am no ma’am and my friends kids are yelling and screaming acting like they own the place! why? because their kids dont take them seriously because they are not being punished appropriatly! i dont care what anyone tells me, my child will be spanked when they are bad, but i will NEVER in my days ABUSE her. All adults i have brought my daughter to love and adore her, compared to that of the other kids. im not trying to boast or brag but make a clear statement. What Farrahs mom did to her speaks a thousand words. Its obvious farrah never took her mother seriously thus fore, got pregnant at a young age, she is rebelious, and she is acting like a dumb ass! all because her mom never took control of her daughter until now she just popped and wanted to start throwing knives.

    • RUFKM?

      This should be called, “why stupid people shouldn’t breed”

 

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