Chelsea Houska's baby daddy didn't even ask to see Aubree on Father's Day

Chelsea Houska’s baby daddy didn’t even ask to see Aubree on Father’s Day

Jun, 18, 2012 | AUTHOR: Lindsay; | Related : Adam Lind, Chelsea Houska, Teen Mom 2

Teen Mom 2 star Chelsea Houska has been through a lot with her baby daddy/ex-boyfriend Adam Lind. Not only does he come in and out of her life as he pleases, he isn’t always a very good father to their daughter, Aubree. Yesterday, he didn’t even ask to see her — and it was Father’s Day!

Chelsea revealed to fans on Sunday, “He didn’t even ask about Aubree or to have her today….sad.” After all he has put Chelsea through emotionally, you’d think he’d at least step up and be there for their daughter, but that doesn’t seem to be the case. If she can’t count on him to want to be a dad on Father’s Day when can she count on him?

Adam Lind himself spoke out against the claims on Facebook saying he “didn’t even hear anything from Chelsea bout seeing my daughter.” Once Chelsea got word of the post, she tweeted, “It’s not my job to ask him.” A fan later tweeted to her that Adam was a “douche,” to which she replied, ”I f***ing know. It seriously makes me cry. It’s so sad.”

Is it really Chelsea’s responsibility to set things up for Adam? If Adam wants to spend time with her, he should take the initiative. She is a great mom to little Aubree and shouldn’t have to go through the trouble of making him see her — especially if he is hesitant. If he doesn’t want to be in her life, he should keep his distance. It only makes it harder on Aubree when Adam is inconsistent. Chelsea recently said the only time he does see her is when he wants to ‘play house’ with his girlfriend.

Chelsea and Adam are currently filming the fourth season of Teen Mom 2 which is sure to, as always, be full of plenty of drama between these two. We hope for Aubree’s sake that Adam eventually grows up and can be the daddy she needs him to be.

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Father’s day is about the kids reaching out to the dad. Giving him a gift, or spending time with him.

Aubree is too young to initiate that so Chelsea should have done it on her behalf. That would be much more constructive and positive than sitting around and crying and doing nothing.

No wonder Adam doesn’t want to be involved when she treats him like that. I know she’s hurt but has she REALLY not learned by now to not count on him? Girl is dumb.

Also I agree Adam is basically a deadbeat dad. But Chelsea behaving like a brat isn’t going to encourage him or help the situation.
- C
  
  wow you’re a jerk. chelsea doesn’t deserve to be called names because adam is a bad and absent father. none of that is her fault.
- tia
  
  Chelsea it is not your job to make adam see his daughter. If there is even an oz. of caring in his heart then he would. He know’s were she is and how to get a hold of you, and that’s all there is to it. So screw him, he only wants to blame you so he don’t look bad an din the end it makes him look worse. Also if you guys think that adam is such a good dad, then maybe he should prove it. He has done a lot over the show and i wouldn’t let my daughter see him. I remember when he said tell me when i can sign my rights away to the mistake. SO SCREW YOU ADAM IS CRAP AND ALWAYS WILL BE!
Valerie

Is she surprised? I mean really? We all know he’s a deadbeat. Chelsea needs to seek full custody and move on!!
- InWonderland
  
  I think she does have full custody. But I don’t think she wants to slam the door and not allow him to see Aubrey. She needs her father, even if he refuses to be one.
LuckyB

Not only that, but Aubree will be the one who benefits when Chelsea steps up and gets a card and small token gift for Adam from “Aubree” until she’s old enough to do it herself. It doesn’t matter if Adam doesn’t return the favor, or if he doesn’t even see her. What matters is that Chelsea shows Aubree the consistent example of taking the high road of how awesome co-parenting *should* be done. It will pay off for her in spades, though years later. But that doesn’t get Chelsea any sympathy and would require her to get off that couch and do the right thing and not many Father’s Day cards come in leopard print, so of course it will never happen.
- C
  
  he’s an absent father. he doesn’t deserve shit for his sperm donation.
Z

Is she still really surprised that he isn’t a good father? You’d think she’d have noticed by now..actually wait, it’s Chelsea so probably not. I don’t really give a damn about the whole father’s day thing in general, but just the fact he’s obviously never been a good father & all the stuff he’s said, I would cut him out of my life completely if I were her. You don’t always ‘need’ a father if they are a shitty one and are going to make your life worse, rather than better. I haven’t seen my father in 7 years, and I wish I’d actually never known him, my life would be better. I wish my mother had made that decision to not have him in our lives instead of making us deal with the horrors he dealt out over 15 years.
Kait

I disagree, its not like Aubree knows its fathers day (so Chelsea isnt really setting an example either way… and Chelsea has stuck her neck out for Adam too many times. She can’t always go to him, run back to him. Adam should have asked about seeing Aubs.
Taytay

I doesn’t surprise me but I don’t feel sorry for Chelsea cause she claims he only comes over when he wants to play house. Well duh he keeps on treating her like crap cause she let’s him. If he needs her she will stop everything and do it then cry when he dumps her she is so upset, but then she always takes him back.
Joei

Reaching out to the dad? She’s a toddler! Adam is a bum.
Caroline

I hope she remembers this next time Adam comes over for a visit and wants a little lovin. My ex husband is a doctor and doesnt even call our child on holidays or visit. Once a year I send off a school photo and now report cards on fathers day. I have come to not expect anything and my child and I have had a wonderful life the last ten years. Chelsea I still thinks secretly wants Adam , Aubree , and her to be the perfect family. As much as I dislike some of the teen moms moving guys in and always having to have a boyfriend, after Chelsea finishes hair school I hope she meets someone decent and can just move on.
Kate

Adam has treated Chelsea horribly, mostly cos she’s let him but Chelsea isn’t totally innocent. I think she let’s her feelings for him get in the way and only wants him to be around Aubree if they’re in a relationship. Its both of their faults that Adam doesn’t see Aubree, he doesn’t try hard enough and Chelsea doesn’t let him. Chelsea is a really good mum but both she and Adam are pretty disfunctional and I feel sorry for Aubree cos their relationship will never be straight forward.
UM?

In my family, we plan everything for the father and he doesn’t think about or worry about anything on his day. To me, it WAS Chelsea’s responsibility to do something special for Adam. I’m sure she would cry if he didn’t do anything for her on Mother’s Day. I can just see her saying something like “I’m the mother of his child and he didn’t even get me a card!”
- A
  
  She’s too busy studying for “hair school.”
a

Adam should have asked to see aubree, yes, but I have him as a friend on facebook and I’ve seen on NUMBERIOUS ocassions that he’s wanted to see aubree, and has asked chelsea if he could have her for a few days longer than planned but chelsea ended up just bailing on him and taking aubree earlier than expected. In adam’s defense, he HAS tried but chelsea is just a selfish little brat who needs to put her daughter first and think of her daughter and her happiness before her own..

Strictly my opinion though
SD

Yeah Im from this town and know both of them. Cameras lie. Yeah Adam can be a jackass but Chelsea is also a spoiled brat. Most of the time when he tries to contact her to see Aubs she doesnt answer the phone and just ignores him. She’s been doing it more ever since he started dating Taylor because she’s jealous. And of course everyone fails to mention that his job(that pays her child support) takes him out of town for weeks at a time depending on the location. Not trying to start a debate but people should keep in mind the things that arent shown on MTV or on Twitter.
KC

Ok so I know Chelsea is a really good mom but she’s is so unbelievably spoilt an its like she’s a kid and Aubree is her favourite doll an she doesn’t want to share her with anybody. I’m not saying that Adams not an idiot because he is but Aubree deserves to see her dad and the rest of her family! He has probably asked to have Aubree so many times and Chelsea has said no that he doesn’t see much point in asking anymore because she will always say no. Chelsea is more focused on her having a relationship with Adam than Aubree having a relationship with him. The only way these two will settle anything is by going to court.
A

Chelsea’s always moaning about how Aubree NEEDS her dad. Um, no, she doesn’t. She doesn’t need A father, and she certainly doesn’t need HER father. Plenty of healthy, intelligent, well-adjusted people grow up without one. Would Aubree benefit from paternal guidance and affection? Absolutely. But Adam can’t seem to give her that. So let Papa Randy handle it.